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This job has been my dream but I don't want to move away, any suggestions?

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Article - (24 June 2008) 3 Comments - (Newest, 30 June 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, Shawn E C writes:

I'm 16 and going into college for 2 years to study computer programing/website design building. i was having a look at an online game i play sometimes at jobs that they have going. It is really good pay as it's £15k a month.

the only problem is, i would have to move to London/Cambridge to work for that company as there are only them wto places where there game design studios are.

I am a little confused what to do, and I'm worried that my relationship with my girlfriend will fail and end up being thrown awa, although it is a really good relationship.

I am not quite sure what to do.

Online game design is one of my dreams as i have been wanting to do it since 12years old as my dad has worked with computers for a long time.

If you was in this situation, what would you do?

1)Risk losing a loved one to make lots of money

or

2)Stay around the area in which you live, live happy with the loved one and have a look for other jobs with good pay?

please tell me your suggestions

thanks.

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A male reader, Shawn E C United Kingdom +, writes (30 June 2008):

Shawn E C is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Shawn E C agony auntReplying to Dr Vendetta

the online game is called "Runescape" created by *Jegex*.

Most children around ages of 13 - 16 would be playing it these days.

theyre a multi-million£ company

Thanks for your feedback :)

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (27 June 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntjust go.

it'll be the best thing you'll ever do.

girl freinds come and go. if she loves you, she'll understand why you have to do it. besides how else you gonna pay for a car, house and her boob job once she's older?

and if you don't do it... you wont be happy. you will regret not going.. besides 15k a month? some people don't even make that a year. if is a chance to set you up for your future, for the both of you.

Also.. do ask them to send up a contract and a terms and condictions for yourself and your dad to look over.. 15K a month is amazing but sounds too good to be true.. so cover your ass on that and do your research on them. call other Studios and ask them if they know of this company.

just ask " i was wondering if you know of ****** studios have you worked with them or seen their work or know of them "

good luck

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A male reader, oldfool Australia +, writes (26 June 2008):

oldfool agony auntI would take the job because you'll regret it down the track and possibly resent her, too, which will also be bad for your relationship. You'll kick yourself even more if you break up anyway!

Isn't there some way for her to move to be with you? If you were married, that's how you would think. Somehow your relationship doesn't sound like you are committed enough to make live-changing decisions based on your relationship.

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