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writes:Im 20 and have been with a 27 yr old for 2 years. We got engaged on my 19th birthday and things were going great. Only problem was we had sex about once a month. We got a mortgage and a house together as i thought things between us would change. We both worked and came home to sit on our laptops and not even made a decent convo. Most nights i decided to stay off my laptop and watch tv to see if he came in the living room to chill out with me, but he never. Hes not very romantic or affectionate which i have had numerous chats with him to tell him how i feel and that hes pushing me away from him. Due to this i have slept with 2 guys behind his back, one was an ex and one was a guy i was seeing when i was 17. For some reason i didnt feel guilty. It felt really nice as they were showing me affection and intimacy and i enjoyed it. We decided to rent out our home. Ive gone to my nans and hes gone to his dads. We see each other but its not that often coz i keep fobbing him off. I think its because im enjoying having all this free time to myself. Ive been seeing a guy for about a month who is so loving towards me it makes me want more. He tells me what i want to hear, gives me what i want and we have a laugh and he wants to take me out. We sit in and watch films and have in depth conversations about anything. He has recently broke up with his girlfriend and doesnt want a relationship with me which i understand, but sometimes i get the feeling i want more but i guess its down to the way he treats me. I do love my fiance but things just arent getting any better. I know i need to end it with him but theres never a right time to tell him. It doesnt help when i dont know what i want either. Ive never broke up with a guy before it was always the other way round. Any ideas of what i should do about the whole situation? and how i could tell him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): Umm Ok. One thing's for sure. U dont love the guy beacuse if u did U wouldnt be doing any of this. You don't know what You want and You're right about that. so My advice to you is to Let him go. You're just wasting Your time with him.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (4 February 2009):
 you don't love him and have no respect for him, the kindest thing you can do is to split up from him and let him find a nice girl who won't cheat on him.
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