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writes:A few days ago my long distance b/f and I decided that our relationanship was not going to work. Everything is against us being together: distance, money, culture. But we still love each other. I was going to go and visit him but we both decided it would be too heart breaking. The only thing is this all feels so wrong, even though there doesnt seem to be a future i still want him. Communication is hard because of the distance, but i thought i should write to him and tell him how a feel. Do you think thats wise? We left it on very good terms. I still feel like there are some 'what ifs' even if they are a long shot. Should I live with them or keep trying with him? Please help! I'm so confused!
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (20 June 2007):
 I've been in a long distance relationship for three years and it is hard. You cant just walk up the street to hang out and stuff like that. I think you should write to him and tell him how you feel. It may not have him come running back to be with you but it may help you to answer the waht ifs and put some sort of closure on this.
Me and my partner used to write letters to each other when we were both really hard up and couldnt phone each other all the time. I used to love waiting for his letter to arrive.
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reader, darksecretangel +, writes (19 June 2007):
 Hey If you really do love him i think you should write him a letter, if you dont you will just regret not knowing what could have happened between you two. Hun the worst thing he could do is reply saying he doesnt feel the same way. I think you should keep trying with him, if it doesnt work than at least you know that you have tried your best making this relationship work, instead of abondoning it when you could have had more. By doing this at least you can be certain that this relationship was meant to be or if it wasnt.Good luck x =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007): If your relationship is solid you will overcome all obstacles. If you love the guy enough you will find the way to work it out - if it is meant to be it will be - if the queries you have put any doubts about whether the relationship is right or not then let it go - distance is no object. Have you heard about Skype - an internet based method of making very cheap phone calls? If you both want it enough you will work it out...
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