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My girlfriend isn't bothered about having orgasms but I really want to give them to her

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Question - (19 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 June 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, *tunna writes:

i know my girl is able to give me an orgasm, but all i really want is to give her one like really bad and it makes me sad that i always come befor her, but she never wants me to finish her off, is there anything els i can do of can some people give me some suggestions.

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A male reader, joshua19 United States +, writes (20 June 2007):

joshua19 agony aunthey dude im the same way everytime me and my girl have sex she tells me just go but i dont want to i want her to feel the same way as i do dont get me wrong i have gave her an orgasm but not during sex i have ate and she had the biggest orgasm ever and playing with her clit also gave her an orgasm advice guy to guy first play with her clit if she will let you and slowly move your way up every girl is different but find out what she really likes like kissing her on the neck or meassage her breasts or suck on them she will tell you what she likes or maybe you should try catching her off gaurd and just have on the spot sex that always works to sometimes they like to not know when its going to happen just try this stuff it will help oh and go buy some KY warming gel and just rub that on her body it will get her hot Josh;p

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007):

trust me if she knew what a real one felt like she would be bothered!

Before I felt really uncomfortable about my boyfriend going down on me or putting his habd down there but when he found the right spot (it took a while!) the feeling was incredible! I've always had orgasims but this was different. Its really pleasurable but doesn't give me an orgasim but it gets you really turned on and when you do have sex makes it much more pleasurable and the orgasim better. look on the web for tips on how to find the spot. It's on the outside towards the top bvut i'm not sure exactly. I can't find it myself only my boyfriend can!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007):

Your girlfriend may be just shy to admit she would like you to do that or maybe she is worried about feeling embarrased that it would take a long time for her to reach orgasm - just keep assuring her gently that this is where we should find the greatest pleasure in life and it would be good for you and that you want to do it - it is what she really wants to hear - dont give in she wants you to show you will not stop until she has the same pleasure as you. It is lovely that you want to give her the same pleasure - she is a lucky woman to have such a considerate and giving lover.

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