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26-29,
anonymous
writes:hey everyone,i'm a girl and i'm 17 years old,i saw this guy of 31 years old in a shop near to my school about 3months,he was totally a stranger for me, but i liked him a lot, anyway we were seeing each other everyday but we didn't talk ,after that i add him on facebook and he accepted , we talked and he knew me, he was cool and has a great personality , then he asked to see me and i said yes ,when we met face to face i was a little bit confused because he dated a lot of girls and he told me everything we didn't date but he asked to see me another time but i didn't want to , i was afraid ,but he didn't stop talking with me so i become more comfortable with him but he has a big ego and me too,i don't know what he wants or what to do,today at school i saw him in his shop , he saw me and he turn around his face because he was talking on the phone or he just didn't want to see me, i need your help plz , any advice ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (15 December 2012):
 My advice is to forget about him.
You are 17 he's nearly twice your age and experienced when you are not.
He is probably grooming you for fun and games on his terms which is not good.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (15 December 2012):
 1) He's significantly older than you.
2) He dates lots of girls.
3) You felt confused and afraid when you met him.
These are your instincts kicking in. Pay attention to them!
I don't think he's the right guy for you to be pursuing, and I am sure he knows that too at some level. Maybe that's why he blanked you; he shouldn't be messing around with 17 yr old girls. Or maybe he was on the phone with one of his dates....
I think you should remove him from FB and try to focus your attentions elsewhere. You'll forget about him soon enough, and you can look back and be glad that nothing really happened with this guy.
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