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51-59,
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writes:I am so hurt. The man i have been dating was hiding phone calls with married woman he was interested in and it's happened more then once so I had to end it. He of course kept denying it but there was no reason for the calls. Whether or not I was way off, I still felt uncomfortable enough about the lies that i ended it. I now feel heartbroken and so sad and just think its so unfair that people like that land on their feet and will probably end up happily ever after together with this married woman, they both make a lot of money, I do not, I don't really have a lot to offer but apparently she does. He hasn't once called to explain or apologize and I feel like he never cared. I guess I don't know how to recover?
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (18 June 2007):
 You done totally the right thing and believe me these kind of people do not usually land on their feet, they always get their just deserts, you can move on now knowing you are not wrecking someones marriage and meet someone that wants to be with you and you only.
You say you do not have alot to offer but you seem like a genuine lovely person so that is much more to offer than a good wage.
Take care.xx.
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reader, melanie +, writes (18 June 2007):
 i wish i can answer this guestion of yours but im in a very similar situation. at least you had the guts to leave him but i dont know what i do without him i just told him i needed a break at least 2 weeks to see how ill do without him. but its only been a day and am already torn n cannot sleep n the worst part is i have proof of hes calls cause i seen hes cell phone n he look at me n said he did not call her right into my eyes thats what hut me. n when i showed him proof you know what he said "i fucked up" thats it not even a sorry or a i wont do it again.
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reader, neonpinkngooey +, writes (18 June 2007):
 It is easy to think that they will end up together, happily ever after, but have you realized that maybe you should be really proud of yourself? if you were right about them, you left a very sticky situation that will probably never end. this married woman will most likely never leave her husband. as for your ex-boyfriend, if he decides to continue his feelings, he will be miserable. so, yes, they make a lot of money, but at least you are not in that crazy love triangle, or square or what ever you would like to call it. and, as many people like to say, money is not everything. my personal opinion is that, out of the people that you mentioned, you are most likely to have the positive outcome.
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