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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I've been flirting with a guy i like and i think he's been fliring back, well anways he's shy and i'm shy but a few weeks ago he had asked me to see a movie with him at his place then asked my roommates (his brother and wife, my friends) to see it too. they were busy so it was just us. anyways i sent him a text the next day telling him i had fun and we should do someting again soon, and he said he wasnt ready for a relationship that he wnated to be friends frist, which was fine with me, but it's been two weeks and he hasnt said much to me....whereas before we'd flirt and talk alot....what happened? i didnt want to scare him off,and i'm not sure. people tell me give him time, but i just don't get what happened. please help!!
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reader, Polly Russell-Furse  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 A Relationship is the hardest to understand. You have said that he is shy so maybe he finds it difficult to talk to you now because you are becoming more that just friends. It's not just a harmless flirt that could lead somewhere now, the flirts could lead somewhere. He probably wants to take it all in his pace. Just make him feel comfortable by just talking to him, getting to know him without flirting and see how it goes.Good luck.
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