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Ive got a boyfriend but i like this other guy, what shall i do??

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Question - (26 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2007)
A female United States age 13-15, 0x_beautifulGurl_0x writes:

Ok well i have a boyfriend and everything i really like him of course but the guy i've liked for a long time just told me he really really likes me.He asked me out when i was already going out with someone i told him that i couldnt because i had a boyfriend it was hard to say no beacause i really like him too. He said he would wait for me i really didnt know what to say when he said that but yea..When we talk to each other the things that he says just makes me fall for him even more but i dont know what i should do,stay with my boyfriend or dump him for the other guy i've liked for a long time...i mean i really like them both but i just dont know what to do. Please give me your honest opinion about what i should do or tell me what u would or if something like this happened to someone, tell me what u did that worked out for u.

Thanks!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007):

weigh the differences. what would be better with one guy or the other. who would treat you better.

At the end of the day sit down and sort out who you have more feelings for. Its not fair to your boyfriend if you stay with him while dreaming of another guy.

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A female reader, Polly Russell-Furse United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2007):

Polly Russell-Furse agony auntI can see your dilemma. As you are young, they could both be your friends - it's never a good idea to just have one friend that's a boy when you are so young. You should have a few friends, boys and girls that you hang around with, go out with and when you are over 16, you will start to know what type of boy you would like to go out on a date with.

Believe me, there is plenty of time of making decisions like this when you are a young adult, you don't need to be making them now, you've got too much on your plate like school work!

Take care.

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