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The guy I like is five years older than me and flirts a lot, what do I do?

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Question - (31 July 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *rostydoll writes:

here it is.

I am falling in love with the guy who is 20, and I am 15, well the age difference isnt my biggest conserne.

what realy makes me sad, that he is a very cocky person, he isnt mean to me, and doesnt put me down, but i see him do that with other people, he is very attractive, and i fall for guys like that very fast, he flirts with me very much, but i dont even know him well. we have seen maybe five times each other, and we have talked on comuter many times, but he flirts with every girl.

Is he bad?

does he use me too much?

i just want some one to help resolve this problem, or stop this crush, or just give me so advices about this situation.

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A female reader, Addyson Canada +, writes (26 April 2010):

I like A guy 3 years older than me too. So yeah I have kinda the same problem, he flirts alot too, but I don't know if he likes me or not. and the flirting with all the other girls part is normal, he's a player, and could possibly be a perevert :P Maybe not (Lets hope Not) xD Tell him how you feel and listen to his answer, if he dosen't like you back, that happens in life sometimes, age dosen't matter though! no matter what your friends say, or family or whatever. If he dosen't like you back just accept the fact that life can't always give you what you want.

Hope this helped (if it didn't just tell me so I can give better advice i won't be offended ) LOL

Try what I said, it just might work (:

Good Luck

xx

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A female reader, frostydoll United States +, writes (31 July 2008):

frostydoll is verified as being by the original poster of the question

frostydoll agony auntthanks for answering, but as i already told you, the age difference is pretty much only four years, im about to turn 16 and he just turned 20, and im not immature, i was growing up and having to be around older guys. and this guys ex was 15 when ever he was 19. so he already dated a girl like me. and i just hate when he starts flirting with me goes where i go sitts where i sit. and everything like that. thats what i get angry about, if i bother him, why does he give me so much attantion?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2008):

He's not bad, he just likes flirting and doesn't realise that doing it with girls your age can cause crushes like yours.

You need to avoid him and flirt with some guys your own age. Fine someone to distract you.

Good Luck!! xx

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