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I want to re-kindle things with my ex, but she isn't interested. On top of this, another ex is wanting me back and I can't say no. Help!

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Question - (31 July 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2008)
A male United Kingdom, *oyWonder2006 writes:

what does this mean?

ok me and my ex girlfriend (2 years ago) ended badly

but we went through everything together like a misscarriage , holiday .

and this year i got back in contact with her shes still fit as hell. i got with a girl whos not like her one bit ...

my new girl got mad and we ended. we was both unhappy so we agreed its the best. the night i lefted me said something horrible things like i said " you will never do better than me " and she said " your ugly with no teeth i will " i said " your fat and ugly " so we didnt end on a good note.

my ex girlfriend from 2 years ago wanted to speak to me the other night so i agreed to meet her after i finshed work. we went for a drive and i said " lets go back to my place " she agreed to stay over.

and as i got into bed she said " look at you takeing your cloths off in the dark " i said " i dont want u to see my body " as a joke and my ex said " i cant remember what u looked like " so i turned on the light and we was in bed have a laugh.tickleing and i was touching her and kissing her body. she only didnt like it when i went near her private parts. she let me kiss around her boobs but with a bra on and no feel of the nipples.

and she asked me to tickle her feet. so i did and i ran my hand up her leg and pushed her panties over to see her clit. she said " im on " so i stoped.

and then i started play fighting and kissing her neck and as soon as i went to kiss her she was pushing me away saying she had to many problems on her head. she didnt need me trying it on. i felt like a right idiot.

now shes fully split from her boyfriend who she was on a break with him when she come to mine that night.

and now shes takeing about staying the night but no funny business. i thought about trying my luck again. but i dont wanna push my luck coz were ok mates not brillant mates but ok mates to hang out and stuff.

i was thinking sleep naked and see if she gets turned on or trys something her self

what do u think i sould do?

now my new ex girlfriend wants me back. but i dont want her back but i cant seem to say no to her so everytime she says " i love u " in a text i text back saying the same.

now im happy being single maybe because next time i go out or something i dont have to worry but .. i know nofthing will happen because im kind of ugly. got teeth missing. so 1 night stands are not gonna happen.

tonight my new ex girlfriend asked me out saying she missed me and i said yes and then i texted her saying no. she text back saying im messing with her head i know but i cant say no.

what would u do?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2008):

Well you can't string them both on seeing which one will have you.

Learn to say no. You are being horrible and are going to cause hurt if you don't.

Since you seem more interested in your old ex I would tell your new one that you have moved on and you are sorry but you can't get back with her.

Then you can try things with your old ex and see what happens. Why not just hold her all night. All you seem to be interested in is sex with her and if she picks up on that she will be gone like a shot. If you care about her then be there for her. Give her hugs and talk to her about things. Show her you care.

If you don't care and do just want sex then just be single as you will end up hurting both of these women.

Good Luck!! xx

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