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writes:Laat night I went to a tarort reader, she pulled out a card involving my partner.. she said he wasnt any gd for more and I need to make the descision to tell him its not working anymore as he wouldnt tell me hinself he moved away in November to work at first he said would b down every weekend and now he well I havent seem him for atleast 3weeks and this week ive not heard from him atall and im kinda determaned not to txt him first... My question is has anyone else been to a tarot reader and made the decision to move on im so confused I keep thinking about it
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (17 February 2014):
 I used to take Tarot Reading classes... you can make tarot say what you need/want depending on the person's reaction to what you say...
tarot is not fortune telling but it can be used to help you make decisions.
in this case, use to to accept the relationship is over.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (15 February 2014):
 I've always been a huge cynic of the paranormal, supernatural, occult, and medium activities. I was raised that there were spirits controlling everything, and I think out of a resistance to that, I developed a very rational and maybe even closed-minded view of all of that. I had a friend some years back who has made money doing tarot readings. She and I had a fantastic discussion about what goes on at a reading, and from seeing readings done, it really is a matter of reading you versus reading the cards. Any tarot card, even the card signifying death, can be read in a positive or negative light based on the narrative the reader has decided on.
My opinion is that the tarot reader read YOU and told you what your subconscious already knows and what advice the other aunts have given you - that you know your answer, that your relationship has already ended, and that you need to ratifying it by ending it officially so that you can move on. Good tarot readers can read body language, your vocal tone inflections, and the manner in which you ask the question of this reader as well as your shift in expression/posture as the reading is commencing.
To be fair, I have received a reading and was impressed with it. She was able to see past a question I asked and address the hidden one I never verbalized, though it was vague enough to just be lucky. Either way, as entertainment value and to help the brain move in the right direction, a tarot reading can be good food for thought, so I don't judge those who offer readings for money.
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reader, Gauntlet  +, writes (14 February 2014):
 Tarots may work, but I doubt a lot a simple tarot reader knows and masters all the mysteries (arcane) of the TORAH (Tarot being in fact an anagramm of TORAH and ROTA, the "wheel" of destiny"). Oppositely, tarot readers are well known to be masters in cold reading (cf: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cold_reading ).In another world, this impostor told you what he (or she) understood was beneath your question. You CAN'T base your decisions upon what is said in that sort of situation, and you MUST be more adult than you are: your life is what YOU will decide it to be. If you want to cut your relationship with your boyfriend, no need to call upon any spirit, any angel or demon. Take your responsibilities because, hey ! You will be the one who will have to face the consequences of your decisions.And in case of bad decisions... where are the spirits when they need them ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2014): I went to a tarot card reader after my husband passed away. I only went because my sister-in-law is into this kind of stuff. So I had a reading and she told me that I would marry again (an option that was off the plate for me at the time), but that the first guy I dated I should get away from him because he would bankrupt me or spend my money, but that the second guy, who was a good Joe, is the one I would end up with. She also stated that if the first guy wanted to marry me that I should come back to her first. Anyway, I'm engaged to the first guy, but it has not been a bed of roses for me at all. I don't put a lot of faith into tarot card readers but it makes me wonder if she was on the money in this case. I still think about what she told me.I haven't gone back to the tarot reader because she lives in another state.Sounds like your guy has moved on though, so I would move on too.It's all in what you want to believe, but if your senses are telling you it isn't working, then believe that first over a tarot reader.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (14 February 2014):
 Cards and reading aside.
You relationship IS over. He moved away without telling you? He has been removing himself from the relationship WAY before he moved. The MOMENT he got the job and didn't TELL you about it he had one foot out the door.
Should you end it because of the reading? IMHO, no. Should you end it, because you two are not playing tit for tat and not TALKING about what's up with the relationship? Because neither of you are really THAT invested any more? YES.
The lady read YOU easily, you were unhappy about the relationship. Maybe the cards gave her some clues too, but I think mainly she READ you.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2014): Please don't make any decisions based on a tarot reading. Ignoring whether they are charlatans or not, how do YOU feel? It seems these concerns you have are raised are because of the reading and not in spite of it. It would be grossly unfair to end a relationship based on this experience. What would be fair is assessing it yourself and considering what future you would have with this person entirely based on what you think, without any outside influence.
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