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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I'm 14 and he's 17, I had lost my virginity to him a couple months ago. I don't regret it, I loved him with all my heart. We broke up 8 weeks ago because I saw messages and pictures of him with this girl and they "really liked eachother". He begged to come back for 6 weeks and right when I thought I was ready to get back together, I see more texts from a different girl. He came over one day and we talked everything out, and got back together. No one was home so we decided to have sex. While doing so, my mother walks in! She was so mad! She says that she's not going to tell anyone as long as my boyfriend lets her know that he really does love me and that I made the right choice. He's on vacation now and hasn't talked to me in 3 days. I've seen pictures of him online with a bunch of girls. I have to tell my mom that he's been treating me well, or eles she'll tell my family. I feel that I've devestated my mom, and let myself down. I feel that my boyfriend doesn't give a shit about me, and that he's living it up while I'm sitting at home depressed. My question is, how do I handle all of this madness?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): What is a 17yr old doing having sex with a 14yr old? In UK this would be illegal and the boy would be in big trouble. If I saw my sisters having sex with a boy that age I would call the police and have him deal with them. So so wrong and sick...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): Isn't it illegal for him to have sex with her if she is under 16? He was obviously using her, but he should have been wiser about the age differences. Stupid boy could get done by the police if her mum decides to tell people.
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reader, ShelbyS01201  +, writes (20 June 2010):
 If I must say anything, it's that this boy has used you. The age difference is one problem in this matter. He is at the age where sex is a big thing, and is something that he wants. You on the other hand are relatively young for this objective. He figured that he could use you to satisfy himself, then go on being a player. He might have the new idea of sticking with girls his own age now; from what you've explained, he doesn't care about you as much as he should. You must end the relationship or risk being hurt. Your mother will surely understand if you explain that the relationship went well, then he wanted other things. She loves you as her daughter, so she will have to think about it. So, to summarize, break up with him, and talk to your mother. Good luck.
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