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Sixteen and the father of my twins is rejecting them because of a lying cousin

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Question - (3 March 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 March 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, im sixteen years old and my bf is seventeen years old and we have 2 week olds twins and my bf and i lost our mothers when we was 2 years old (my bf) and 13 years old (me) but our family is happy except my bf cousin. She telling everybody im a whore and my twins not his kids and now his family looking at me like im a whore and hasnt came by to play with our twins and started denying the babies. Me and my bf family been going at it and my bf letting his family talk ish about me and HIS kids !! and he stopped playing and taking care of our kids and started partying etc. My dad and my family been helping me out with the twins. I love him sooo much but I cant take this no more. I offer to take a Lie Detector Test and a DNA test but they declined.

So my question is

What should i do ?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (5 March 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntHoney you had twins two weeks ago.. those babies.. eat, poop and sleep right now.. they don't play...

You go to court you get a DNA test and make sure he is listed as the father so that he is financially responsible for his children.

You do not worry about his family and you note that at 16/17 you are both so young and that things will change as everyone grows and matures...

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A male reader, jamespike Canada +, writes (4 March 2012):

Absolutely flynn. Couldn't have said it better.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2012):

You CAN go to court and legally FORCE the boy into a DNA test you know. That way they have no choice but to accept responsibility.

You need to get the douche away from his family for five seconds and try to convince him to man the hell up or else you WILL legally force him to do so.

Boys like him give the rest of us real men a bad name.

Flynn 24

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