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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well, the thing is I've met this guy (a year younger than me) who happened to know my sister as well. We talked a lot at the beginning of the year and really got to know each other. (Nothing ever happened in between but, you could tell there was this chemistry in between). Anyway I didn't notice this till her bet friend told me he was interested in me and, which came clear when he asked me out on a date. Freaked out (as I've never been on a date before) I declined politely, from that day onwards he stopped talking to me.Around 4 month after that I met someone, I even went out with him. I just told myself "Hey, leave shyness behind and go ahead" and so I did. I saw him for about 2 months and that was it (he was too full of himself and I was blinded by his outer beauty, I thought to myself "when am I gonna hang out again with someone as pretty as him?"- Ah, I know). Somehow this other guy found about it and I felt so bad as for when he asked me out I declined and now I was seeing this other guy?.And now comes the part where my sister (younger than me) comes in. I had no idea she also talked to this guy till she told me. (she knew we were friends but I had no idea about her). The thing is both ended up making out.(I'm almost done, I promise).I met this guy (my friend) at a party and, I'm too bad noticing this but, according to my friends he was hitting on me.1- Should I feel bad about what happened with him and this other guy I went out with?2- Is he interested in the 2 of us; my sister and I?3- A friend told me he might hanged out with my sister to make me jealous or something? Which I think it's insane.I'm terribly sorry for its length and, thanks in advance guys. For realPs. Sorry about my english!
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reader, 11muds11  +, writes (8 December 2010):
1. No of course not. You didn't do anything wrong. you didn't promise, so no problems.
2. He likes a certain type of girl. You both fit that description. No problems..
3. Very easily that could be. He's got you so worked that you're writing here aren't you? I think he did a good job getting you to think about him.
I have to say, I've heard this story many times.
Look at it from his perspective. He likes a girl that's not interested in him. Her sister is though. She's already said no, so what's wrong if I go out with her sister.
He's in the clear here. It's your move.
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