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Is she interested or playing hard to get?

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Question - (5 December 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 December 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *ensativeguy010 writes:

i met this girl in one of my classes a couple weeks ago and just before the semester ended i asked her out and got her number. so we planned a date for lunch then a movie but unfortunately things came up on my end and we werent able to go. so then she suggested rescheduling for a later date and we could do pizza and a movie at her house but i told her that i wouldnt have a vehicle at that point in time, so she then said she would come to my place. so she came over and made pizza we watched transformers and talked a bit. then she left, she said she had a good time and enjoyed herself. and im careful about txting her a lot and calling her cuz i dont wanna seem desperate or anything. but im not sure if shes rly interested or not. cuz she doesnt contact me too often, could she just be playing hard to get or could it be she doesnt wanna come off too desperate as well?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010):

Men are not subtle — men are obvious. Women know what men want. Men know what men want. What do we want? We want women! It's the only thing we know for sure: we want women! How do we get women? Oh, we don't know that. After that first step, we have no idea. This is why you see men honking their car horns, yelling from construction sites; these are the best ideas we've had so far. - Jerry Seinfeld.

She's probably thinking exactly what you are thinking "Should I call him? I've called the last two time, maybe I'll seem desperate."

Just call her; she will be happy you called. The more you communicate, the closer you'll get. If she makes too many excuses why she can't see you, then throw the line back into the sea (metaphor).

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