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writes:so here the thing my girl friend dumped me but we are still very good friends i want to stop loving her because i know there is no chance for me and her any way she already loves another guy but i cant stop loving her because i see her every day how can i get over her with out not talking to her Reply to this Question
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reader, grymsoul  +, writes (20 May 2012):
 Dude, man up and just start talking to other girls. You think you got it bad? My ex girlfriend is my co worker and she spends all her time with this new guy she left me for. We're all co workers and it was hard seeing them both hang out with eachother everyday.I use to hate seeing that. . .until I too started flirting with other girls. I realize that there are so many other great girls out there that wants some attention that I almost forgot about my ex. Now I enjoy seeing her staring at me when I walk off with another girl deep in conversation. HER LOSS. You say you can't but I wager that you just don't want to. You're still hooked on the past you two had and you're holding on to a fictional connection you two don't share anymore. She dumped you, now get over it. Show her that it was a mistake to cast you aside. If you walk around pouting all day then you just project the image of a sad puppy who lost his favorite chewtoy. It's pathetic to see that. Start having fun and going out with other girls. Don't just pretend to get over her. Actually immerse yourself into everything else besides her, then before you know it, you'll see regret in her eyes for letting you go.
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reader, colten +, writes (19 May 2012):
colten is verified as being by the original poster of the question i cant i live right next to her
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 May 2012):
 The only way to get over someone is to cut contact am afraid, there is no way you will be able to get over her if you stay friends with her.
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