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writes:ok sorry its long. in the end of 2009 a guy that is friends of my family and i started talking. we both flirted but he was living in AZ n me in IA, he came back and visited and he came over and we hung out, drank a little and played Rock Band, nothing happen between us. He asked me how old i was, at the time i was 18, he was 24, he seemed a little sad or whatever. He slept on my couch, no drinking n driving, and left in the morning when i went to work. We didn't talk for a couple days, which was kinda unusual so i messaged him on facebook and told him that i like him, no answer n after that we didn't talk for atleast a yr. end of 2010 he moved back to Iowa and we started talking again.Begining of 2011 we started hanging out, went out to a couple bars, went to friends house, where he told a complete stranger that I was his wife. but then we left due to they had drugs. the next day he text me!! asked me how work was going and we text on and off for the rest of the day and days later. about a wk after the "wife" thing we went out with my uncle, aunt, cousin and some mutual friends and he supposely flirted with me, a couple of us went back to my cousins they drank, i was a couple months pregnant so no drinking for me, he rode with me so he wasn't drinking and driving and on our way he asked if i was still with the baby's dad, i said no and told him it was bc he was abusive, he told me if i ever got into that situation again to call him he wouldn't have it. he some how broke his phone in my car so while they were playing cards i held his phone so it would charge, he told me his sister was moving back and he wanted me to get to know her.i text him the next night and told him i still liked him, and i have yet to talk to him again, unless it was about football. i thought i was over him but all of a sudden i can't stop thinking about him again. iv tried talking to other guys and i can't stop thinking about him enough to be more than just friends.i want to get over him, or do i wait and see what happens, do you think he likes me? sorry again that it is soo long. thanks in advance.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 May 2012):
 I honestly think he cares about you as a friend but nothing more, yes I might be wrong. But that is the way it is looking, he wants to be there as a friend but I think he is avoiding trying to lead you on, so he doesn't reply then when you talk about meeting up or even when you told him you liked him.
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reader, Nat Lynne +, writes (23 May 2012):
Nat Lynne is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell yesterday was my grandpa's funeral and he was there and when i got there he was the 1st to meet me and start talking to me, we talked on and off until he left for work. I text him when i left which was about an hour later and thanked him for all he did and told him that my grandpa thought very high of him and thought i needed to be with a guy like him, his response was "Classic! I love it"I text him a couple hours later, saying I needed someone to talk to he said "aww, whats up?" and we talked for a couple hours about my grandpa, when I asked him if he wanted me to let him go to bed he said "No it's cool" we both ended up falling asleep, and to my surprise he text ed me this morning saying "morning..hope you're doing better. and we talked a little n when i asked him when he has any free time to do anything because he works everyday he never answered me, granted he is at work so I'm hoping that's y he didn't answer...Still very confused
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (9 May 2012):
If he never answered again for a second time when you told him you liked him then it looks like he might not. My guess is the first time he was concerned about the age difference, and maybe that is the same reason again. It sounds like he cares for you and he wants to look out for you but am not sure he is romantically inclined with you. If he does not reply I guess you should try and move on. It will help by less contact with him and concentrate on moving forward with your life. I know these things can be hard but if he is not prepared to even reply to you telling him you like him then I think you need to try and get over him. Good luck.
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