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female
age
30-35,
*ustABittenKitten
writes:I have had this friend for 3 years. A year ago I moved, and he was one of the few friends to stay in contact with me. We started having feelings for each other and when a month before I moved back he asked me out. So... we were together for 2 months, before he flips because he starts to have slight feelings for another girl. He immediately breaks up with me when he realizes this. Now he's really sorry that he flipped out, and sorry that it has messed up our friendship. He wants to go out again, but I'm afraid that he will just flip out again. He keeps saying he feels really guilty. and what I can't really figure out is if he really likes me or not. If he's just confused, and scared of an actual relationship.... I guess my question is, should I try and be in a relationship with him, or should I just keep it on a friends only level? Reply to this Question
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reader, Blackruby  +, writes (11 August 2007):
He does sound a bit immature when it comes to relationships, he seemed to panic when he realised getting a girlfriend doesn't mean you stop finding other girls attractive. Try to make sure he understands that it's ok as long as you don't act on it before trying it again.
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