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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:SOOOOO my boyfriends(C) brother(D) WAS my friends(B - female) boyfriend. they broke up like 2-3 months ago. 2 weeks ago I found out that D was with another female and she moved into the HIS MOMS house with D and his siblings, mom and dad. They are supposedly getting married also. I found this out from C and I don't know if I should tell B as a friend or not tell her because it is none of my business and to avoid problems with C and the family.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (16 September 2012):
If your friend (B, I think) has broken up with this guy and has been split up from him for months, what’s the point in telling? If they are history as a couple, why make things more complicated for you, your boyfriend and the family? If she’s hoping that they’ll get back together, then you should tell her so she doesn’t get her hopes up only to have them dashed. If not, however, leave it. Don’t lie to your friend, if she finds out and asks you about it you should be honest with her, but there’s a big difference between confirming a rumour and going out of your way to tell her. That you shouldn’t do. Why do you think your friend would care what her ex is doing anyway?
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (16 September 2012):
 It depends on why your friend's relationship with him ended, and on how close you and she are, and the reasons why you are considering telling her and what you believe the result of you telling her will be.
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