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writes:Ok, so I recently met this girl, online. I have an account on one of these LGBT comunity sites, and I never randomly message anyone but I get a lot of girls messaging me. And they usually happen to live in the same area, but they're always really boring and/or desperate. But then this girl, who is fun, and I think she's actually very beautiful, she messages me.we click, I get her msn, we talk a lot, I get her facebook, flirt a little bit, she wants to meet up, she gives me her number, I get a bus, she takes me round town, then she takes me down a quiet underground carpark, and it's just us, sitting on a cold curb for four hours, I can't focus on what she saying at times, because all I can think is how much I want to kiss her right here, right now. I think she likes me, but I don't kiss her. I don't want her to think thats all I want. So I give her a present cuz it's her birthday soon, she's a little shocked, but really thankful. She walks me to the train station, offers to pay my ticket, but I have enough, she walks me to the platform, I want to kiss her goodbye, I pause for a second trying to figure her out, in the end, she hugs me and watches the train speed away.I thought it went well, I thought she liked me. But now I have no idea whats going on in her head. I don't know where I stand. She told me she's not completely over her ex yet, who still flirts with her, yet flaunts her conquests infront of her. She says she's not over her enough to see her with anyone else. So where does that leave me? Is she over her enough to see herself with someone else?when she told me that I tried to leave the conversation, but she didn't want me to go so I stayed, and she said I looked cute the other day. last night I was talking to her about my phone stalker, I joked that it was her that had the obsession with me. Now if she didn't like me, she would have joked right back and been sarcastic without giving it a thought. But no she got defensive, asking me where this alternate reality came from. like I was serious. I said she was the one that had built a me shrine, not the stalker guy. I think thats fairly obviously joking, unless I struck a nerve.so yeah, I have no idea where I stand with her, whats going on, what she wants. All I know for sure is that she wants to see me again, and she's looking for friendship at the very least. And honestly, I would be happy with that, she's a really cool fun person to be with, and it's not awkward, and I had a really great time with her. But I just need to know where I stand so I can either be just that or be more. Should I just tell her all this? because I really cannot go through the whole crush on a friend thing again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010): You need to tell her how you feel straight up. Then she will respect you and tell you how she feels:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010): She watched the train pull away...Dude, she likes you...i would guess ALOT!
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reader, Buttercup 89  +, writes (26 August 2010):
 what you have just said you need to saw all that to her you have just completely opened up your heart about someone you obviously care very strongly about you need to tell her this before its to late ... also for your own sanity you need to know where you stand are you an item or friends she obviously likes you so i think you need to push your nerves aside and tell her how you feel ... Good luck :D
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