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anonymous
writes:I got married last year, no babies yet... One day I looked for my ex on facebook, and happened to find him. I sent him a message and he responded back... we've been chatting since then. I don't know why I looked for him, he was my high school bf and we used to have a lot of fun together. We've been talking for a month now, and he says he never forgot about me. We haven't seen each other in 11 yrs. I am so afraid of this feeling, I love my husband he would never ever cheat on me.... his only bad thing is that he is really cold with me and this other guy is completely the opposite. This is gonna sound corny but I am addicted to this guy, I cant wait for my husband to leave in the morning so that I can chat w him., I know I am not doing the right thing, I feel so confused and guilty. Should I see my ex and finally find out if this is real? should I stop this feeling from getting stronger? or should I follow my heart???
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2009): "I got married last year, no babies yet... One day I LOOKED for my ex on facebook, and happened to find him. I sent him a message and he responded back... we've been chatting since then."
I'll never understand it, it seems these days people look for reasons for divorce and go seeking out their trouble.
Instead of being like you know, we need to spark up this relationship, etc - BAM, they start the love triangle up.
It's like people enjoy to find ways that WILL HELP them divorce.
Good luck with this, (I hope your husband is getting his emotional needs met elsewhere too).
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (6 November 2009):
 You got married last year and already your thinking of an ex? the answer would be NO you are playing with fire here, forget meeting up with him in fact he is a distraction to you as to regards your husband and that is wrong.
If you and your husband are experiencing problems due to his coldness as you put it, then solve that problem please take it from me you don't want to go and invite trouble into a marriage that is only a yr old?
I would cut loose any connections with this ex because i can see where this is going, your enjoying the attention from him because maybe that is lacking in your marriage?
I would urge you to work on your marriage, don't give up and turn to someone else to make you happy that is what your husband is there for.
To do this behind his back is totally disrespectful, give your marriage a go stop all contact with this ex, i think deep down you know where this will end up so don't even go there!
Gina
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