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I am thinking bad things about him, what do I do to erase it from my mind?

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Question - (6 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2009)
A female Namibia age 18-21, *francy writes:

i love this guy very much that every time i think of him i cry.. he has told me that am madam boss but i find it hard to believe. he also told me that he loves me and that if i do not know i should know its true he loves me.. the thing is am scared of loosing him as we are far from each other.. what to i do to get this stupid thinking out of my brain.. the other thing is i keep thinking he is a player though i know showed me he is not. am confused.. please help..

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A female reader, sukanya United States +, writes (6 November 2009):

sukanya agony auntHey, if he has assured you of his love i really don't think you should worry about it so much. i think you should trust him. Its just that you are in love with him and since he's away from you, insecurities are building up...but just put them aside and trust him if you feel he really loves you.

There is really no other way you can actually test his love for you.

But if you feel that he's really not loyal to you, identify the reasons which actually make you feel this way and you could probably reason it out with him

In any case, please avoid crying over it, i mean i know its really hard and its easier said than done but just try and Im sure things will work out :)

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