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writes:My now ex-boyfriend found out from his sister that my ex boyfriend was married and even me telling him that we were just friends.He just cannot believe me to a point he gave me a lecture in a restarant where the other diners stared at me and i just walked out .Now i presume we are over, as i have not heard from him. I have only heard from his daughter who left nasty messages saying i have broke her dads heart.I never told lies. i am 45 and he is 59.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2016): Lying is a worse offense than reacting to the lie in an embarrassing way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2016): Unless you want a lecture in every restaurant, or a rant in front of other diners i would definately close the book on this relationship and i would ignore the daughters text too.
It sounds like a lousy night out and one you should never wish to repeat so i would drop the guy who publicly embarrassed you and never repeat the experience unlessyou findthat kind of behaviour an incredible turn on and if you do you might consider different methods of getting all spiced up, ones that dont mess up other peoples dining experiences.
He probably wanted you to foot the restaurant bill and by walking out first you got a free bit of dinner so is it surprising he's claiming a broken heart?
It might be the first time he's ever paid for his ownbrand of foreplay!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2016): You told your current BF that your ex-husband was "just a friend"?
Wow, talk about lying by omission.
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (1 June 2016):
 Ok just getting this straight...your married ex boyfriend was in fact not your bf but a friend that happened to be a guy, right?
A bit of an OTT event in the restaurant, no wonder you walked out.Truth is truth what else can you do but sit back and wait for him to hopefully calm down a bit and be a bit more reasonable.
As for the daughter I would txt back that you have done no such thing, he asked you a question you answered honestly and chose not to believe you. So you dont come off and cant be accused of being the 'bitch' you could acknowledge her wanting to look out for her dad but point out that he is an adult capable of dealing with his relationships as one.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (1 June 2016):
 You could, if you really want to, contact him, maybe send a text, let him know your daughter contacted you because she was concerned about him .......... (I know that is not why she left those messages)
You could try including in the text that you don't know what his sister said, or where she got her information and that you have never lied, and if he wishes to discuss the situation further, without lecturing you or creating a scene in public he has your details.
And leave it at that.
I hope it can be sorted out, good luck!
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