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writes:Should I make her jealous because she is confusing me, one day it looks like she has feelings for me again and saying stuff like love you so much, I miss you, few hours later it seems like she is avoiding me saying things like we need to be apart for a couple of months. So we are going to the mall tomorrow should I act like I'm trying to talk or look at different women and when she calls me tell her back to pretend I'm talking to someone else. Do girls like stuff like that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): No girls do not like stuff like that! It makes them feel like you don't like them any more and you are just playing with their emotions. I think your best coarse of action is to talk to her, find out why she is acting the way she is.
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reader, 48years  +, writes (26 December 2008):
 No, girls don't like it. Guys often think that this behavior attracts a woman's attention. Truth is, there's no faster way to lose a girlfriend.
Girls, on the other hand, make the same mistake when they say. "we need to be apart...' they are often playing the game of, "let's see if he really wants me" and then are let down.
I'd pursue her heavily. I'd tell her, no, we aren't going to be apart.
If you want her-show her and fight for her!
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reader, BlueCherry  +, writes (26 December 2008):
 This is why people should learn how to communicate with one another, and no, its not because us women like to talk & talk. Did it ever cross your mind that by making her jealous could end your relationship? wouldn't it be a whole lot easier to tell her what she is making you feel and that you need things clear? I'm certainly not saying to spill your heart out, but let her know you're mature enough to know what you want in your relationship, that you're ready to love and be loved. No bs, just a straight forward talk.
Cheers,
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