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I couldn't get it up for her! Was I too drunk?

Q.   Last night I was about to have sex with this girl that I have been interested in having sex with for months..Im so horny around her and I think about it all the time. Yesterday we hung out and we got drunk real bad.We were on Gin and juice for ...

A.   11 January 2009: Alcohol tends to have that effect on ya' when you drink it like its water. Don't feel bad, its clear it wasn't you. Your head was telling you to go for it but your poor body was just wasted. Next time make sure not to get so drunk so you can have ... (read in full...)

13-household items & sex

Q.   im 13and a boy and i want to use house hold itams to wank cuz im bord of using my hands im also wondering if i shud try and have sex yet cuz i rilly one two its just if i have sex now i wouldent have it with any older girls so thay would have to be ...

A.   31 December 2008: Awww... you're still a sweetheart!... (read in full...)

Should I feel bad for being happy that I didn't end up marrying her?

Q.   About 8 years ago, I dated a girl who I had known for a couple of years after her divorce. We started out as friends and dated on and off for 3 years. We broke up because I wanted to get married and have children and so on, but she was unable to ...

A.   28 December 2008: Could very well be that you're a bit interested on someone that once rejected you, and its now very much interested. That's normal! And so she got into a sucky marriage and its now wishing for old prince charming, can you blame her? Be HAPPY you'... (read in full...)

Should I play hard to get to make my girl come back?

Q.   Should I make her jealous because she is confusing me, one day it looks like she has feelings for me again and saying stuff like love you so much, I miss you, few hours later it seems like she is avoiding me saying things like we need to be apart ...

A.   26 December 2008: This is why people should learn how to communicate with one another, and no, its not because us women like to talk & talk. Did it ever cross your mind that by making her jealous could end your relationship? wouldn't it be a whole lot easier to tell ... (read in full...)

I'm so disappointed by my guy's x-mas present!

Q.   This Christmas I am so upset. I know it sound shallow but I got my boyfriend of 3 years a really nice skateboard (which was a very thoughtful and expensive gift) because he uses his really old beat up one everyday. The board I got him is amazing and ...

A.   26 December 2008: Anonymous is right- don't be silly! Tiffany's didn't make act of presence this year but you got a good guy buying you something to keep you warm? hmm.. I think you should be greatful, maybe not happy, but on the very least, give the guy some ... (read in full...)

Unprotected sex & pregnancy!

Q.   Hi, first of all, I'm just under 19 and my ex is 18. We broke up nearly a month ago after a two year relationship and neither of us are anywhere close to being ready for a child. Which brings me to this cluster-f*ck: we've hooked up a couple times ...

A.   26 December 2008: Well.. its a start you admit to the mistakes you've made. On to the consequences, right? you should really get a pregnancy test as soon as possible, that will determine the road you'll have to take. I also hope this is a wake up call, realize that ... (read in full...)

13-household items & sex

Q.   im 13and a boy and i want to use house hold itams to wank cuz im bord of using my hands im also wondering if i shud try and have sex yet cuz i rilly one two its just if i have sex now i wouldent have it with any older girls so thay would have to be ...

A.   26 December 2008: Oh you're such a sweetheart.. I am sure you'll get the "you're to young & should wait until you're older" from the readers here, which is true and I completely agree with, but if you must, do be safe and think of the possible consequences. A short ... (read in full...)

No more sex!

Q.   My boyfriend stopped wanting to have sex with me completely!!! we were together for almost a year. Him and I used to have sex 4 times a day in the beggining and it was the best sex I've ever had in my life and he said the same for him. This whole ...

A.   26 December 2008: Hmmm... cultural differences ? language barrier ? I too was in a foreign country and had to adapt at a young age, hard to do. Perhaps that's one of the many reasons you two didn't click? maybe not, maybe im just trying to make some sense of it all.... (read in full...)

No more sex!

Q.   My boyfriend stopped wanting to have sex with me completely!!! we were together for almost a year. Him and I used to have sex 4 times a day in the beggining and it was the best sex I've ever had in my life and he said the same for him. This whole ...

A.   26 December 2008: With all due respect here, your true colors are showing, how did you ever hoped for this guy to know what was going on if you waited around feeling abandoned and playing all this games? and, to top it all off, you go and find another loser in a ... (read in full...)

Jealousy - I feel silly

Q.   Ok. I feel like an idiot for writing this but here goes. My wife and I have been married over 13 years with 2 kids and one on the way. Anyway she opened up a face book account and is now "friends" with her old boyfriend online. She never tried to...

A.   26 December 2008: Well, sure.. you got every right to be jealous. On the other hand, you seem to be pretty aware and confident of the love and trust you have for your wife. Perhaps a nice conversation with her where you can express your concerns and feelings will ... (read in full...)

No more sex!

Q.   My boyfriend stopped wanting to have sex with me completely!!! we were together for almost a year. Him and I used to have sex 4 times a day in the beggining and it was the best sex I've ever had in my life and he said the same for him. This whole ...

A.   26 December 2008: Diovan is absolutely right. Why would you expect the guy to come to you and communicate when you, on the first sign of the relation going sour, dropped him like nothing? You're collecting what you deserve.... (read in full...)

No responce from ex after I sent him Christmas greeting...

Q.   My b/f and I broke up about 2 months ago, we had no contact for almost 7 weeks. Our breakup wasn't overly negative. The past week, I've debating whether or not to send him a Christmas greeting. Anyway, I finally decided to do it. So on Christmas ...

A.   25 December 2008: The thing about this is that its NOT about you being a "classy" girl or a good "friend", its about you NOT being over the guy that broke it off with you. You probably deserve someone better than that, not just some "pathetic loser" after all, you're ... (read in full...)

No more sex!

Q.   My boyfriend stopped wanting to have sex with me completely!!! we were together for almost a year. Him and I used to have sex 4 times a day in the beggining and it was the best sex I've ever had in my life and he said the same for him. This whole ...

A.   25 December 2008: Dear stranger, Everything you've done during your 'relationship' was very wrong and he was never yours to begin with. I believe that's my answer to your question- don't go after that does not belong to you. ... (read in full...)

I think about having anal sex all the time, should I try it?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I think about having anal sex all the time do you think I SHOULD go ahead and have it off with someone? I would like to experence what it's like. ...

A.   16 November 2008: I think you should experiment all desires so long you do your research and take precautions. Knock yourself out, sir. Cheers!... (read in full...)

I had to shave my legs before we... you know. Is this a turn off to guys?

Q.   So ive gone out tonight for a drink, expecting it to just be a drink in the local pub as usual I normally go to. Didn't shave my legs! Ended up going home with a guy, have known him a while, we both like being single. But we had a good giggle. But ...

A.   16 November 2008: Haha.. I wouldve done the same thing! and I personally think it would have been a bigger turn off for him to caress some hairy legs. Nicely done! :p... (read in full...)

Caught my daughter masterbating

Q.   I caught my daughter masturbating at her room with a dildo,and she was orgasming, she then noticed me and went to the bathroom crying. What should I tell her?...

A.   16 November 2008: She was being a responsible kid. If I ever have kids I would much rather find her with a dildo and not a guy on top of her. I say o assure her that its perfectly normal and that she did not do anything wrong.... (read in full...)

What does it mean when he puts his fingers in my mouth? Why didn't he try to kiss me despite all the touching?

Q.   Hi, I am 22 and a virgin. I'm not very experienced with guys - I've never been kissed or even had a boyfriend. A guy who I have been friends with for the past few years has started to be quite flirty with me whenever we meet up and when we are ...

A.   15 November 2008: ... I followed, Miss birdy and I think that's what the guy meant to do. I just hope he washed his hands before... yuck! :) Cheers!... (read in full...)

How do I do fellatio without gagging because of the smell and taste? How do I suggest that they wash before it?

Q.   Hi I've had 6 different boyfriends in my life and I've given all of them blowjobs but my problem is that I don't like the smell or taste of them down there. It actually makes me gag which makes it very hard to enjoy myself, sometimes the smell is so ...

A.   15 November 2008: Oh princess, you've been given good advice. But, really, what's going to happen if you two are in the mood and a shower would be SO wrong at that time? you can't shower the poor guy everytime he gets in the mood! You could suggest many things duri... (read in full...)

How can I control my jealousy? He keeps talking about other girls!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and I was never a jealous girl until we started dating. I guess it's when you realize you've got love, you don't want to share your man with anyone else. But he does talk about other girls a lot and ...

A.   15 November 2008: Ah... women, we are just so darn complicated! a little jealousy is good to let him know that he "belongs" to someone, just don't go nuts. Try to zone him out when he is telling you these things, ask about these women- get amuse by the way he sees... (read in full...)

My brother is mad at me because I slept with his wife. How can I make up it to my bro ?

Q.   My brother is mad at me because I slept with his wife, I lived with them cause my girlfriend kick me up for cheating on her. My bro beat the sh!t out of me (he gave me a black eye) and throw me out. I think he's divorcing her now, He hasn't talked ...

A.   15 November 2008: Really? that's a very bad situation to be in. You already did him a favor by showing him that his "wife" was not worth it and has a brother he can't trust. You don't screw your family like that, you just don't. Hope that one day he will consider... (read in full...)

How can I get pregnant if he can't cum from sex?

Q.   hi people,my husband cant cum during sex,he has 1 testicle what are the chances of us getting pregnant using a syringe? A x...

A.   15 November 2008: ... either that or do what some crazy people would do: see a doc Cheers!... (read in full...)

Pains in my chest! Why is that?

Q.   im now 16years old and im a girl i had a heart operation when i was 15 i fownd out in ur 9 going up to year 10 i had a hole in my heart i still get pains in my chest is it cos my boobs are still growing or cos i had the operation ...

A.   4 October 2008: Go back to your cardiologist, kiddo. This might be more than just your 'boobs growing.' Take care... (read in full...)

I'm wondering what walks of life the aunts and uncles come from?

Q.   Dear posters, I think its wonderful to have people from different walks of life, to be able to come here and look at others situations with a different set of eyes. its great! On to my question, I was left wondering what each and every one of you...

A.   1 October 2008: Danielepew- Sounds like a wonderful idea. I'm up for it. Let's chat!... (read in full...)

I'm wondering what walks of life the aunts and uncles come from?

Q.   Dear posters, I think its wonderful to have people from different walks of life, to be able to come here and look at others situations with a different set of eyes. its great! On to my question, I was left wondering what each and every one of you...

A.   28 September 2008: Im the original poster of this topic. I wanted to thank all of you again for taking the time to share about yourself here. To Danielepew, what kind of business we are talking about here?... (read in full...)

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