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Ex'es in love and having sex, it all feels so confusing!

Q.   I was dating my boyfriend for three years and then we mutually broke up.We both believe that we are going to get back together and we both love each other,but I always look at the cons of our relationship and this gives me doubts.Shortly after we ...

A.   15 July 2008: Why can't you be together? Furthermore, what's the point of telling him how you feel if you don't want to be in a relationship with him. Let it go honey. Walk away for a while, it'll be better for both of you.... (read in full...)

I love them both for different reasons and don't know who I should be with!

Q.   I am 26, engaged to a my bf of 8 years, when i entered my first job at 25 i started to see someone else from the office who had many qualities that i felt were missing from my bf,currently i am techincally with them both becuase i dotn know who i ...

A.   15 July 2008: I think you should be honest with both of them and then see if either of them even wants to be with you anymore knowing how you've deceived them. Therein will lye your answer, the one who is willing to stick around even though you have made a ... (read in full...)

Should I moan? Or should I try not to moan?

Q.   Okay. So, I just gota ask. When my boyfriend fingers me, and I moan just a little quite moan..Does he like it? Or should I try not to? Help!! ...

A.   15 July 2008: Most men seem to like it the more noise you make, the more you enjoy what they're doing, the more it makes them feel like they know what they're doing.... (read in full...)

One of the secretaries has placed an unopened tampon under my personal belongings, any idea why?

Q.   Hi I have returned to work in a healthcare organization and share an office with 12 colleagues. A few other secretaries also have access to the room. I don't know any of them too well as I have been away for 2 years. One of the women has placed...

A.   14 July 2008: It was probably an accident, why would you even go to the trouble of posting a question on this site for something so trivial. It sounds like you all need to grow up.... (read in full...)

When we hold hands, our hands get sweaty, any way to stop it?

Q.   Hi everyone. Now this might seem like an odd question, but id be grateful for any replies. When me and my gf hold hands,it gets sweaty real quick.Is this normal? and is there anyway to stop it? Thanks...

A.   14 July 2008: I think you should be less concerned about sweaty hands and more concerned with the great girl who's hand you get to hold every day. It just happens when people are nervous, maybe take it as a good sign, there's definetly chemical attraction.... (read in full...)

I started to watch porn on the internet. I haven't been caught yet but I'm afraid I will.

Q.   I am 13 and have recently began to have sexual feelings...i started to watch porn on the internet. I haven't been caught yet but i am afraid i will... How can i relive my sexual urge without being caught doing something embarrassing? I have tri...

A.   14 July 2008: I think the person who answered this before me needs to stop trying to spread the word of god to someone who could very well not have been brought up in a religious household, as I myself wasn't. I think that may be why I have such a problem with ... (read in full...)

We are still together, I'm just walking on thin ice because he saw me while I was drunk. How can I right this wrong?

Q.   So... here is the deal before I ask my question; I have been with my boyfriend for only a month now and I feel like I am becomming more attached to him than he is to me, well I did feel that way up until last night. You see, we were sitting the...

A.   14 July 2008: Thanks for the advice although, it seemed kind of generic to me. You know, like a stock answer to a love-related problem. The only way to fix this is by communicating? Well, it's a given that communication is key when it comes to having a healthy ... (read in full...)

My wife told me she would cheat on me with George Clooney if she had the chance!!!

Q.   Guys, would it bother you a lot if this happened to you? My wife and I were watching tv last night where a woman was asked a question, if George Clooney asked her to have sex with her and there was no way she could get caught would she cheat on her ...

A.   14 July 2008: You're taking this way to seriously. She was testing your boundaries. Next time you're sitting in front of the television together and the new Jessica Alba movie is on, make sure to tell her how if you had the chance you would totally cheat on her ... (read in full...)

How do you deal with a crazy psycho ex-girlfriend?

Q.   My boyfriend's ex cheated on him 4 times during their 5 year relationship before she finally left him. She came up with stupid excuses like "oh but he raped me" and "he said he would kill you and your family if i didn't sleep with him." What the ...

A.   14 July 2008: I have dealt with this exact situation with two different guys I have dated. My advice to you is... don't let on that it worries you. That is really the best thing you can do. Don't say anything to the girl unless she contacts you first. If your ... (read in full...)

When will my periods start? Brown discharge!

Q.   Hello, I am 14 and have had a discharge and pubic hair for about 2 years now and I am 10 stone. My boobs are small but so are most others in my family. I haven't started my periods yet but today I got a heavy brown discharge! It doesn't smell or...

A.   14 July 2008: Have you been having cramps? They feel similar to a bad stomach ache. Since you're having brown discharge it sounds like you have definetly started your period. Maybe it's time to make a doctor's appointment if you're really unsure.... (read in full...)

When and how should I come out of the closet?

Q.   I'm gay and only 13. Here is my situation. I go to a catholic school. My dad is an uber republican. All of my family is super religious(christian), as are my aunts, uncles, brothers, sisters, grandparents. I live in a community where a lot ...

A.   14 July 2008: I think it's wonderful that you're so sure of your orientation at such a young age! My advice to you is to start seeing a councelor or therapist, someone who is required to keep the information you share with them confidential. You can't hold ... (read in full...)

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