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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hello everyonei need your help. i have an incontinence or an involuntary leakage of urine condition when i have sex which lasts for 4 - 5 hours.i went to doctors most of them said that they can't give medication because the condition is not permanent and some gave me other medication which didn't help at all.i have hard time in bed with my boyfriend because of this condition. please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (17 July 2008):
 Hmmm. The doctors checked you out and could only give you medication? So there's no obvious physical thing?
Have you ever heard of Kegel exercises? They are when you practice squeezing the muscles which control urine flow?
Have a look at this website for specific instructions.
http://women.webmd.com/tc/kegel-exercises-topic-overview
Other than suggesting you see a doctor right after you have sex, so that she or he can see what is going on with you as it's happening, that's all I can suggest.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni apologize if the question was not clear enough.
the sex session lasts between 10 - 30 minutes but the incontinence lasts for 5 hours.
it's not a squirt or a gush it's more like dripping, i'm sure it's not ejaculation cuz i know how ejaculation feels like and it's different.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): Sorry to ask but the question is a little ambiguous- do the sex sessions last for 4-5 hours, or does the incontinence last for 4-5 hours afterwards? I think this might affect the answers to your query.
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reader, elpasotexas  +, writes (14 July 2008):
 I am unsure did you mean that your sex sessions last 4-5hrs or do you leak urine for 4-5hrs after sex?
If the first case and you are leaking during sex, have you considered that instead of urine you are ejaculating? It is a bit of an urban myth female ejaculation is definatly real. I have a friend who is quite open with it and after speaking to her this could be your problem as many girls believe that it is urine, which it is not.
If you are continuing to leak for 4-5hrs after sex then this is something that you should seek further advice for and perhaps look into bladder weakness further.
Hopefully this helps, I hope you are suffering from the first of the two.
Good luck xxx
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (14 July 2008):
 4 -5 hours? My Goodness! That's a long time to have sex for. Is this part of the problem? Perhaps you should have shorter sessions in the sack? That is quite a bit longer than most sessions. The only advice that I can think of is are you getting up and peeing frequently during these marathons? Make sure that you get up and pee frequently during your lovemaking sessions and that should relieve some of the pressure on your bladder.
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