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writes:I share an apartment with my older sister. A few weeks back I came home early and caught her and my older brother in her bed having sex. I was shocked at first and have not said anything. I have since found them two more times. I think this is something they must do a regular basis. Should I say anything or just let them have their secret. Reply to this Question
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (17 October 2007):
 They are adults at this point, and it is none of your business. Stay out of it. However, if the circumstances make you feel uncomfortable, consider moving out, or at least ask them not to involve you by coming over to do it while you live there.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, bemused +, writes (16 October 2007):
 Are they using birth control? God I hope so. I am a special education teacher and I have a student in my class with a severe gene deficency because of shenanigans like this. It might show a bit of class and culture if they desist from this nonsense. If they cannot they need to be using protection. It is crazy...the choices people make sometimes and it puts you in a miserable situation.
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reader, CynthiaRenae +, writes (16 October 2007):
If it bothers you, which it obviously does if you're on here asking about it, I would confront them. And if not at the same time then maybe the one you're most comfortable talking to. Just ask what's going on with them and if they really think this is ok? Be supportive but let them know that you're uncomfortable with it and give your opinion.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (16 October 2007):
 Well, goodness. You seem pretty cool with this whole thing. I don't hear any shock, any "ewwwww", anything from you! Hell yes, I'd tell someone. This behavior is no good and needs to stop.
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