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I'm a 26 female from Mustang, Oklahoma. Basically, I'm not qualified by a degree to give advice. But I've pretty much been there, Done that, or know someone close who has. I've read tons of relationship books cause I used to teach High school girls at my church about dating and the Bible. A good book I'd recommend it Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. And for you ladies, He's just not that into you. Granted neither are "bible based" but they have lots of good points that have helped me out of my "crazy" stages with men. Good Luck!!

Can I get pregnant if I have unprotected sex during menstruation?

Q.   can i get pregnant if i have unprotected sex during my menstruation....

A.   24 October 2007: If you are female, Yes you can. Karlos is right, it is less likely although very possible. Remember: No hat, No party! That way you have even less of a chance.... (read in full...)

Am I crazy to be irritated by this whole situation?

Q.   My boyfriend's ex girlfriend (whom he was with for 3 yrs) prior to me, asked him to "cosign" a $10,000 student loan for her. Personally I think its just another way for her to hold on to him and stay present in his life, so they have "reason" to ...

A.   24 October 2007: Just so you know (I used to work at a bank) any amount of money of 10,0000 or more goes on a national type report. And since he co signed with her he does have to be there for her to deposit the check because I'm sure it's made out to both of them ... (read in full...)

All of the pregnancy tests were negative - including the one performed at the doctor - but I still have no period!

Q.   I posted a question before asking if there was a chance i was pregnant, lots of people gave me different answers saying yes u could be and others sayin no.Well i have done 2 pregnancy tests since then in a 1 week with 3 days apart and have also been ...

A.   19 October 2007: At your age it could be anything. Periods are very weird and is affected by lots of stuff. Stress (thinking you were pregnant), sports, change in diet, or just being irregular. You period won't actually become more regular till you are out of ... (read in full...)

Should I stop trying to help my alcoholic / abusive husband and force him to help himself?

Q.   I'm not sure what I should do here. I have been separated from my husband for approx. 45 days now due to his alcoholism and mental/physical abuse. I've still been trying to help him by letting him know that I have not given up on our marriage and ...

A.   16 October 2007: What your husband has is a disease. Alcoholism is scary and can be very difficult for one person to handle. When he yells at you then turns around and apologize, that's the alcohol. You need to be supportive, yes, but at the same time it will not ... (read in full...)

Should I let them keep their little secret?

Q.   I share an apartment with my older sister. A few weeks back I came home early and caught her and my older brother in her bed having sex. I was shocked at first and have not said anything. I have since found them two more times. I think this is ...

A.   16 October 2007: If it bothers you, which it obviously does if you're on here asking about it, I would confront them. And if not at the same time then maybe the one you're most comfortable talking to. Just ask what's going on with them and if they really think ... (read in full...)

What is this discharge?

Q.   i am 16 and this might be too long but plz answer my questions i will be veery thankful it will make my life alot better. I have this liquid stuff coming out of my vagina it has been there for as long as i can remember probably before when i starte...

A.   9 October 2007: Go see your gynecologist. They are used to these kinds of questions. It's not embarrassing at all. It sounds like you might have some kind of bacterial infection that can be easily cleared up with antibiotics, but you have to see a doctor before ... (read in full...)

I am obsessed and confused with my younger love.

Q.   My bf and I have been together for one year now. I'm much older than he is, he's in his twenties, and I'm 41. A month ago I found out that he has cheated on me twice, I found out after the second affair. He says that he loves me but that the age ...

A.   9 October 2007: If you really want to break it off with him you have to be strong. Like a band-aid. Get rid of it and throw it away. You don't reuse it do you? NO! So talk to him, tell him how you feel, tell him it's over, then erase him. Get rid of his number, ... (read in full...)

My bf put his penis in and pulled it back out, I'm 14 - how do I get a pregnancy test without my mum knowing?

Q.   hi im onli 14 years and i would like to ask a question me and my boyfriend didnt want to hav sex and he put his penis in and pulled it back out, it was 5 days ago when i done it what shall i do and how do i get a pregnancy test at my age without ...

A.   9 October 2007: It's only been five days. It's too early to tell if you are pregnant. Chances are you might not be since he barely put it in, but it is possible. You can buy a test on your own or here in the states we have something call Planned Parenthood. ... (read in full...)

I feel I'm not good enough in bed for my guy and that he think about other women during sex.

Q.   i feel like im not good enough in bed for my guy. we have got an amazin sex life but i hate going on top because im conscious of my tiny boobs.whenever i try and go on top he always pretends he likes it then about 2 minutes later says roll ...

A.   2 October 2007: Oh sister you're thinking way too much into this! How are you supposed to enjoy sex if you're thinking about this stuff all the time? OK the roll over thing, guys just like that position. And going down on you? He wouldn't do it at all if he ... (read in full...)

I am obsessed and confused with my younger love.

Q.   My bf and I have been together for one year now. I'm much older than he is, he's in his twenties, and I'm 41. A month ago I found out that he has cheated on me twice, I found out after the second affair. He says that he loves me but that the age ...

A.   2 October 2007: I didn't have to read your entire article before I knew the answer. Ditch the Kid. He's way to young to know what he wants and you are old enough to know when he's playing games. Keep you around? Don't think so!! Get rid of him before he hurts ... (read in full...)

This man left me because he made another girl pregant. After months he emails saying they lost the pregnancy. He knows I want him back. Should I go back?

Q.   A man i was madly in love with left me a few months ago because he made another girl pregnant. I still am not over it and cry everyday asking why? He did leave me and said he would give it a try with this girl because he did have feelings for her ...

A.   2 October 2007: NO NO NO This guy is trash. You can find so much better. A guy who won't cheat on you and leave you. Congrats to him for owning up to his mistakes but what about you? DON'T let this guy ruin your life!! It'll take time to get over I'm sure. I ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to have an affair when we love each other?

Q.   Help, I have not had any close relations with any male. I wanted to wait for the right man. Now I have fallen in love with my colleague who also loves me, he cares for me and is a very helpful person and we are close. I want to go all the way with ...

A.   2 October 2007: Sister if you have to ask you already know the answer! Don't fall for this dirt bag. That's all he is for leading you on. He's married and has his own problems. Good for you for waiting! I'm sure you'll find an even better guy who will not put ... (read in full...)

Is he cheating or am I overreacting??

Q.   Ugh! I feel I am going crazy and I need some advice from you all -- regarding cheating. First of all I'd like to state that I am pregnant and since becomming pregnant I've not been my usual self, so I feel I can not see clearly at times. Anyhoo, ...

A.   1 October 2007: I think you're ok. It doesn't sound like he's cheating but the dildo thing is weird. Does he usually use on himself? That's fine if he's into that but why use a condom for that? Do you know for sure that a condom is missing? I wouldn't worry too ... (read in full...)

Is he cheating or am I overreacting??

Q.   Ugh! I feel I am going crazy and I need some advice from you all -- regarding cheating. First of all I'd like to state that I am pregnant and since becomming pregnant I've not been my usual self, so I feel I can not see clearly at times. Anyhoo, ...

A.   1 October 2007: I think you're ok. It doesn't sound like he's cheating but the dildo thing is weird. Does he usually use on himself? That's fine if he's into that but why use a condom for that? Do you know for sure that a condom is missing? I wouldn't worry too ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure what to do about my unofficial bf after our argument! We haven't spoken in 4 days!

Q.   I am in love with a guy who I have known all my life, for the past two years we had a great relationship, but never made anything official. When I finally said I'm tired of hiding, he said he's not ready to go public yet and he cares alot about me ...

A.   1 October 2007: Oh sister! It's obvious he's not as into you as you are him. Fake crying!! Really? Don't lower yourself. Please!! This guy is a jerk for leading you on for 2 years. If he was really into you, he would have come out of hiding a long long time ... (read in full...)

Should I send my daughtersto stay with my ex's sister? Teenage daughters need a woman to look after them and I'm physically disabled...

Q.   i asked something here a couple of days ago and got some good advice so i thought i'd ask again, following something my collegues said to me... my fiancee left me for her boyfriend like 2 days ago now and she's basically told me to take the kids and ...

A.   1 October 2007: Just because you're disable doesn't mean anything. Teenage girls should be mature enough to realize what's going on. Talk to them about it. Would that rather stay with you? And if they do they need to realize that they need to help out. I think ... (read in full...)

How do I get my sex drive back after a baby?

Q.   I Am A New Mom And Am Having Trouble Seeing Myself As Anything But A Mother. It's Been 2yrs Since My Baby's Father And I Have Had Sex And It's Hurting Our Relationship. I Don't Know What To Do. How Do I Get My Sex Drive Back?...

A.   1 October 2007: I would go see your doctor and see if you need to be on hormones or something to that effect. It's normal to not want to have sex after having a baby but you need to remember that you are also a girlfriend. If you want your baby's father in your ... (read in full...)

She displays weird, jealous behaviors! Is all this worth the trouble?

Q.   Lately arguments over the same things developed between me and my fiance. From day one she has been aggressively jealous (even violent). However,there`s been several things i have seen looking suspicious, or her behaviour has gone wierd after ...

A.   1 October 2007: It sounds like she might be the one cheating... I hate to tell you that but sometimes the accuser is the guilty. I hope she's not cheating but it kinda sounds like it. If she's your age she should be way past the jealousy outrages that come from ... (read in full...)

Male arousal..how easy is it for the guy? Any thoughts?

Q.   Just a question about male arousal. I've heard many times that guys become aroused very easily, easier than girls anyway, and I was just wondering to what extent. I was told that things like being touched in the wrong place or just seeing a re...

A.   1 October 2007: It is very true that guys get arouse much much easier than girls. Simple things like sitting in their lap, touching hair, or even a hug can cause this. Also, they way girls dress these days doesn't help either. Males are turned on physically and ... (read in full...)

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