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Why does my girlfriend keep bleeding after having sex?

Q.   me and my girlfriend have just had sex and for the first time she started to bleed and plus she had pain's but after bout 20 minutes the blood so then me and my girlfriend was both horny so we tought we do it again but now she hasn't stop bleeding ...

A.   27 July 2008: it's because the first time a girl has sex a film like thing in the top of her vagina breaks and she will start to bleed this will happen and might continue to happen the next few times but after it heels it shouldn't happen again ... (read in full...)

I'm tired of being a virgin, maybe I should have just gone out with sluts and been more liberal. I think it's time for a change in values...

Q.   I´m a 23 year old virgen. I was brought up believing that saving virginity for marriage is the right thing to do. I believed in being patient, honest and faithful with my girlfriend. I believed in sacrafice and putting my partner´s feelings above my ...

A.   1 July 2008: I'm sorry you feel that way but believe me most wemon would die for a man like you most women arnt to fond of the guys who want to jump in the sac the first date I'd love to talk to you and I dont usually do this but I'd prefer you message me and we ... (read in full...)

I have confidence issues and don't know what to do. I'm also reluctant to change.

Q.   I have serious confidence issues, and today I went to my first day of a new school. Unfortunatley I have been at the same school previously my whole life. Yeah I have mates outside of school and that, but that one day has just altered everythi...

A.   1 July 2008: Dont change yourself be proud to be you you seem so sweet but like you are just so confused like you don't fit in but there is nothing wrong with not fitting in it means your unique but I see what you mean when you say you are more mature then other ... (read in full...)

My partner of 9 years has been secretive and dishonest!

Q.   I have just found out that my partner of 9 years has been lying to me. He has been looking at porn on his mobile and getting off on it. Now that isn't the problem its the lying and the secrecy and the fact it has escalated to him using text ...

A.   1 July 2008: .I have a friend who's dad is just like this and I'd say simply talk to him and if he is truley sorry work through this with him it could be an addiction who nos I'm so sorry that is all I can really say on what youve given me feel free to message ... (read in full...)

He says he can't be in a relationship with me but he wants to still be intimate?

Q.   Recently i met this guy and began talking to him. we bacame very close in a short space of time. For the first couple of months we were talking every day over the phone for hours upon hours. We then met up a few times and it was great and he then ...

A.   1 July 2008: that's not right he should commit if you have done what you said I understand his side I mean but you deserve a commitment and I would say that you should say no more "fooling around" till you get that oviously don't be so agresive tell him how you ... (read in full...)

Crush on my friend's little sister

Q.   I think I have a crush on my friend's little sister. The problem is she's turning 13 and I'm turning 17. I have a feeling most people will dissaprove because of the age difference. What do I do?...

A.   1 July 2008: ok well I don't disaprove i think first of all talk to your friend don't go in to detail he won't like that just ask him if he'd be ok with it you don't want to rewin the friend ship of coarse with her being young in his eyes he probuly will say no ... (read in full...)

We decided to take things slow but is not seeing him for 2 weeks a little extreme?

Q.   I don't understand,I started seeing this guy bout a month ago. I had split up ith my boyfriend 3 months before and he split up with his girlfriend a month before seeing me. because we had both been hurt before, we decided to take things slowly and ...

A.   1 July 2008: that is way super extreme thaking it slow simply means mabey no kissing till after a few dates and no frenching for a few weeks or months nothing as extreme as that though I wouldnt ever consider that taking it slow I'd say that's just silly I mean ... (read in full...)

Should I go for the one I think I love, or the one who's in a gang?

Q.   I really like this guy, we've been best friends for a while now. We had an amazing time the other night. We stayed up all night talking, kissing, cuddling. I was the happiest I have been in a long time. Though, we are not dating, I think I may be ...

A.   30 June 2008: Well babe I have been best friends with this one guy since I was like 3 and just the other night (just like you) i had an amazing night with him I slept over and we stayd up all night just cuddleing and laughing it was so much fun and even in the ... (read in full...)

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