Should I confront her husband and let him know what his wife has been doing with me for the last 2 years, or let nature take its course?

A male age 51-59, anonymous writes:

well , where do i start , was working with this girl for a couple of years , we became the best of friends , would talk about every thing and any thing , she is married , im single , and has kids , i knew all this before any thing had happened , she is a beautyfull woman , totally in to her , she invited me to her summer place , we just talked , and when i left , she give me a kiss and a hug , so as time went on , we become very close , again i went to see her at her summer place , and ended up sleeping with her , she had my heart than , a few months had passed , still working in the same place as her , about three months in the L-word was said from both of us , to each other , she said she wasnt happy with her husband and wanted to leave , but was staying because of the kids , this was hard for me , as time went on we would see each othe alot , some times 3 to 5 times a week , this went on for a year , than she says we have to slow this down , and went on a family trip with him and the kids , she said it didnt change anything , for me i was , upset at this , now she says she is mixed up , and cant leave , but says dont know why , its the kids , doesnt wnat to brake the family up , i said your doing more harm to your kids by staying in a loveless relationship , now , here is my question ? should i confront him and tell him what his wife has been doing for the last 2 years with me , or just let nature take its course ?

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