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writes:Well My Problem is im a 16yr guy and there's this girl who is 14 going on 15.Our band went away together last year in july and i havent seen her properly until 3 days ago.When we were on tour, i really liked her but didnt want to scare her so didnt say anything, so just stuck to hinting and flirting. She took quite well to all the flirting and we got on great. i sat next to her most coach journeys so she had a chance of cuddle up to me and go to sleep :).After the tour however, i left the band and hadnt really seen her since, until 3 days ago at a friends 16th party.There was a fair bit of alcohol there and we both got pretty drunk, her ALOT worse than me. A bit later on she came over and kept hugging and kissing me, and then made out with me. Then later getting in with me again she had her hands down there fiddling with my manhood, no i didnt go that far and just kept my hands on her ass.Then realising what was really happening, that she was under age and it couldnt go any further, i pulled away and just wondered off to other people, and i didnt get to speak to her again that night.We now havent talked at all online since, and i saw her yday and she just blushed and walked quickly past not saying hi.Im really quite worried, as i would never normally do something like this, esp no to a 14/15 girl, i despratly dont want it to ruin our friendship. I feel as though it was/is all my fault when i know it was her trying it on.I really want to talk to her and sort things out, but i dont know how. Please help.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (1 September 2007):
 How admirable you are, you don't find many guys of your age like that anymore.
What i would suggest, is that you tell her you like her but that you have a great deal of respect for her and until she is of a legal age you would not want to get into a physical relationship with her, as it would not be fair on her and it could get you into a great deal of trouble.
I'm sure at the moment she feels a bit embarrassed because of what she done and the fact you just walked away when you realised things were getting abit heavy.
Just talk to her and tell her how things are.
Take care.xx.
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