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male
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30-35,
*hyeah
writes:Alright to make this short and quick as possible, my ex dragged me on with her for 6months. I basically waited for her. I decided to move on and so I'm like alright imma just delete her off facebook and I did this was like a week ago, and like a couple days after that I got a friends request from her I'm like wow..I denied it, next day a 2nd request from her and a message saying "why can't you just accept my friend request?" I ignored it and denied it again. Next day 3rd request denied again. Next day 4th request denied again, 5th request denied again. And last 6th request but here's another funny part. She comments my wallpost of me saying happy birthday to her older sister saying "ew." and I checked it, its gone she deleted it. So I denied again for her 6th. Like honestly what's going through her head?
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male
reader, Illithid +, writes (11 July 2010):
 Block her.
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male
reader, TimmD +, writes (10 July 2010):
 I agree with doing nothing.
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female
reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (10 July 2010):
 She wants to be in your "friends-list" so she can keep taps on you.. Keep ignoring/denying her and move on.
Good luck
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): personally women don't like the silent treatment and i think if you didn't want her as a friend then you should have manned up and stated so when she first requested it. Like sending her a message with something like "look, we are still pretty much newly exs and its not the right time to be friends at the moment, after a little time and prespective then it is possible we may one day become friends again but why poke a wound right now? So, thank you for trying to make peace but i feel we still need some space, please honour that. take care and goodbye". Okay her facebook stalking you is not good but i do feel its due to your silence and ignoring, if you had stated why you don't want to be friends right now nicely and then blocked her, she's have no choice but to understand. Also, so she can't add you everyday ... block her ass lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): just dont confirm or ignore the request hehehe so it will just go unanswered and she cant keep requesting you.
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female
reader, karen1989  +, writes (10 July 2010):
 She still wants you basically.
Ignoring her friend requests isnt solving anything,shes obviously not the type to give up easily..make it clear to her that u don't want her anymore,ur moving on. Be blunt about it and if she ends up feeling hurt by your words then so be it. Its better for her to be hurt knowing where she stands with you,rather than to be ignored and clinging on to hope that ur still interested.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 July 2010):
She's thinking that you're still the man who can be dragged along. Some people do this. I wouldn't bother with her. Continue not to take notice.
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