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How to have sex life with porn star boyfriend?

Q.   There is a man I have been seeing for the past 5 months we are now boyfriend and girlfriend. I found out he was a porn actor on our third date. He has mention introduced everybody even people he has worked with and caught him in the act on the job ...

A.   22 December 2009: There's a difference between fucking and making love. The former is his job and the latter is for the two of you to experience. Don't go about it like you are just fucking. There is more emotion than that involved in your relationship.... (read in full...)

Built up resentment?

Q.   what to do like four months ago. my cousin n this guy i like told me im boring. i didnt speak to them about it were not that kind of people to talk things out. lately he flirts with n tried to hug me like 20 times saturday because he liked my ...

A.   22 December 2009: Yes it's resentment, but who cares. You've been hurt by him before and don't want to get hurt again. He likes you and probably just thinks you are playing back. No one hugs someone they don't like. ... (read in full...)

How does love work inside the brain?

Q.   Hi-- I was wondering if anybody could send me a link or explanation of how love works inside the brain. What causes the joy? Butterflies? Electricity? Pain? I haven't really understood the sources I've found, and I'm just curious. The pa...

A.   22 December 2009: My best explanation is that feeling good is just the release of dopamine. It happens when you sky dive, have fun, make love, and take ecstasy (not at the same time). But honestly, that is the best explanation I have heard. Just a side note thou... (read in full...)

Young girl with a big problem...

Q.   I seriously need help. And I have absolutley nobody to talk to so if u could, tell me ur advice. I turned 18 and moved a state away from my whole family to be with a 34 year old man. Now, don't get me wrong, I love him with all of my heart. And I ...

A.   22 December 2009: It sounds like he is Bi- Polar (manic- depressive). It is a serious illness and he probably can't help the way that he's acting. If you really care about your relationship, then you should go see a psychiatrist (not psychologist) together. It ... (read in full...)

She is too tight, how can we solve this?

Q.   me and my gf have tried intercourse 5-6 times. my penis is not circumcized and I am her first sexual partner. I have had sex before, but this girl is just too tight. my penis penetrates just about an inch inside her and my foreskin is pushed back ...

A.   22 December 2009: you should finger her more. use one finger, then two, then three. it will take time. buying lube helps too.... (read in full...)

Please don't lecture me, I need advice on what I should do next!

Q.   i have recently had unprotected sex several times within the past month or two. lately i have been feeling nauseous, tired for no reason at all, having weird food cravings, going to the bathroom more, and my breasts have been sore. i have had what i ...

A.   22 December 2009: You should go to a clinic and get tested. Knowing, good news or not, is better than the uncertain. ... (read in full...)

Am I going to have to kiss him after he goes down on me?

Q.   i want to get eaten out. but idk how it feels. or even if i should let my boyfriend do it. it doesn't bother me that he is licking and sucking my vagina. but im going to have to kiss him after. ....

A.   22 December 2009: You don't know until you try... plus I think it's nice to make out with something that kisses back after I've gone down.... (read in full...)

Is he feeling me or not?

Q.   i like this guy in my math class,he used to sit infront of me but now his in the back one seat away from me. i get confusing vibes from him. at first i thought he moved to talk to me but some girl in the class sits right by him,he always flirts wit ...

A.   22 December 2009: Sounds to me like he likes you but doesn't know how to start things off. ... (read in full...)

What are the signs of a guy liking you, even though he's made it clear he doesn't want a relationship?

Q.   Erm... what are the signs of a guy liking you who right now doesnt want a relationship and wants to be single? The reason i say this is this guy in my class seemed to really like me, the way he looked at me, the tensionn between us and everythin...

A.   22 December 2009: When you two are talking, just touch him more. Be physical, touch his hand or chest when you laugh. The reaction you get will make it obvious if he likes you or not. Don't be awkward- watch other women interact with their boyfriends and husbands. ... (read in full...)

Why is he lying about porn?

Q.   Ok, so I've been w/ my fiance for 3 years now, 2 of which we have lived together. He works construction and got rained out early one day, and instead of coming home, went to the adult store. I didn't mind, it was nothing we had done together before, ...

A.   22 December 2009: Yes, he lied about the porn. Don't worry though, it was probably just was a spark of something new and that's what excited him. Bring him lunch one day while he's working and sneak him off somewhere. Or try having sex in a public place or in ... (read in full...)

How can I turn around our sex life?

Q.   Hi everyone, I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now. We have known each other for a few years prior to us hooking up. She is really sweet and kind towards me, and i love her to bits. She has spent quite a lot on me this Christmas, as i have ...

A.   22 December 2009: Having sex with a woman is like learning to play an instrument- you will make mistakes, but with time you will learn to make her sound beautiful. Practice not having sex, just use your hands. Do everything for her for one night and try to make her ... (read in full...)

How can we sneak away or be quiet enough that no one knows what we are doing?

Q.   Hi, I am 18 yrs old and have been dating my bf for 2 yrs he is 21. We are sexual activity and have a very good sex life. We haven't seen each other in a little over 6 weeks, and tomorrow I will be flying out to spend christmas with him and his ...

A.   22 December 2009: Go for a hike, sex outdoors is awesome. Go "christmas shopping" and have sex in the car, just make sure you find a good place to park. Other than that, try saying you're going to the movies, or sledding, or to visit some friends that are also in ... (read in full...)

18 year old boyfriend can't keep it up!

Q.   Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for three months and it is going really well. We have run into an issue while having sex. It is usually amazing but for some reason he can't keep it up. He's a healthy 18 yr. old so this is totally weird if ...

A.   22 December 2009: First off, stop drinking then having sex. That will definitely affect a man's "sprungness". Next, just a little something I use exclusively when I'm taking too long (say 45 minutes), tell him to hold his breath. No joke, that shit works. I can ... (read in full...)

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