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Sharing a bed with my girlfriend has become a nightmare. What should I do?

Q.   Hi, I'm having some real problems in bed with my girlfriend, but not in the way you would immediately think. Sharing a bed with her has become a total nightmare, specifically when we stay at her flat. I'm usually awoken at nights when she pulls m...

A.   22 December 2009: if this is the only issue and she isnt a b**** like this toward everything then shes just a grumpy sleeper that needs her beauty sleep my advice is simple get that bed on tv that people are jumping around and the wine doesnt spill therefore she... (read in full...)

HELP...Wife lied about her past

Q.   I need some advise especially if you've gone through this and can help. My wife of 8 years (we've been together for 12), has revealed that she lied about her sexual past. I actually caught her talking to an x on a social networking site ...

A.   22 December 2009: the only reason why your upset is because you probley have been only with one or two people its seriously not that big of a deal stop crying like a little b**** odviously shes with you and not them jealously is definatly a low confidence t... (read in full...)

I'm 19 and my parents are trying to control my life

Q.   Ok, this is going to be really long, so please bear with me. I'm 19 years old and still live at home. My parents don't want me to move out, therefore I was pretty much forced into going to the local college so I could live at home while I go to ...

A.   22 December 2009: im an nineteen year old girl and i have the same exact situation as you down to a teen and this past year i have mastered how to break it for one in your situation pack up enough of your shit buy your plane ticket get off work and go see you... (read in full...)

I pushed her away because I thought I was HIV positive. I'm not, now I want her to know!

Q.   Hello all, My situation is rather embarassing, but regardless, i'd like to know how people would handle it. I dated a very special girl for four years. Right before I dated her, I had an incident while on vacation in south east asia. I w...

A.   22 December 2009: a really good friend of mine was at a rave and theres a a group called the hiv crew that goes to places and actually infects people they feel deserve it and as hes danceing he felt a prick looked down an a needle was in his leg! no joke he had to l... (read in full...)

I can't do this anymore... I'm obsessed with his ex!

Q.   I'm losing grip, and I'm losing my mind... I've written on here before, but I'm still suffering. Things got better, and now they're falling back into a place that is haunting me, and it's a place that I can't escape. I am 20 years old (almost 21),...

A.   22 December 2009: dude iv had the same problem i even went as far as telling my bf at the time you can be friends with girls as long as you havent fucked them and as long as im pretter then them lmao but finally i realized guys are sooooo turned off by that kind of ... (read in full...)

She is too tight, how can we solve this?

Q.   me and my gf have tried intercourse 5-6 times. my penis is not circumcized and I am her first sexual partner. I have had sex before, but this girl is just too tight. my penis penetrates just about an inch inside her and my foreskin is pushed back ...

A.   22 December 2009: i had this same problem being to tight the doctor told me during a pap smear to use lubercant and before sex take two or three fingers and press up toward the belly button about like 30 times or more it streaches it out an gets it ready for the ... (read in full...)

What's a good present for your friend-with-benefits?

Q.   I met this guy at work during the summer and we've been in what could be considered a casual relationship for the past 5months, meaning that we have a sexual relationship but we also do just hang out and talk. It's very relaxed, no obligations. ...

A.   22 December 2009: duh get him somthing from lotions and lace that sex shop ;)... (read in full...)

I like sex far m ore often than he does and this is causing problems!

Q.   I am in a long term gay relationship. Things between us are mostly good and we love each other a lot but when it comes to sex I would like a whole lot more than my partner. After a few years of struggling with this I broke up with him. I couldn't ...

A.   11 December 2009: that sucks!!!!!!!!!! your best bet is to find someone new honestly if im with someone i expect them to do it every single time i want it and ill return the favor odviously if hes holding out on you then hes not your perfect guy and you need to move ... (read in full...)

My jailbird husband holds a get out of jail card, but I have moved on

Q.   I have a very complicated situation. Most people would say it is very clear cut but to me it isn't. I married the man of my dreams, who I was very much in love with. Eight months after we married, he strangled me and beat me up. He called the police ...

A.   1 December 2009: thats so scary! what if he gets out and strangles you again or trys and kill the guy your with! get the heck outta there asap. protect yourself.... (read in full...)

How can this be rape when I'm of legal age? His grandmother says she's going to call the cops!

Q.   I'm 17. I keep getting caught having sex with my boyfriend by his grandparents. He's 19. Yes he lives with his gparents they need help around the house. His grandmother said tht if we have sex then thts rape. How can this be rape when I'm at a legal ...

A.   1 December 2009: be more sneaky and try not to do it in their house! but your 17 isnt 18 the legal age? and trust me she wouldnt dare to call the cops on her own grandson! he would be the one to get introuble not you cause hes the older one so he would be the tec... (read in full...)

21 and still a virgin, but lead a busy life! What can I do?

Q.   well,i dont know from where to start.im 21years old and im still a virgin.sometimes is quite embarrassing for me.i dont know but in any relationship i have failed..this is giving me a some depression.i mean,i wanted to to with somebody spe...

A.   1 December 2009: I know exactly how you feel. I was a virgin till I was seventeen now im 19 but all during highschool everyone was having sex there were no virgins in sight and I was soooo embarressed to be one I even lied a couple times how ridiculous huh! I ... (read in full...)

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