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30-35,
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writes:I feel pain. I feel sadness. I feel jealousy. I thought I am over it already. This year I love my female best friend somwhow and at the start everything was perfect. We used to laugh at each other jokes and all sort of wonderful things. However later she went out withanothe guy which was extremely paindul for me an during those three months we were very close to each other and she did try to take care of me even though she was with another guy. The worst thing is during those three months I have accumalated far too much negative emotions and therefore 3 weeks after the broke up I sent her a goodbye letter saying that I am emotionally exhausted and need a break. She was sad. Afterward she kicked me out of fb friend list but I manage to get back in because she doesn't like that way too.However, now she is really cold towards me. She doesn't talk to me anymore and when I talk to her the tone is so cold but her attitudes toward other guys are completely different. The only good thing is she stills know I exist because she will look at me for less than 1 sec and turn away again. And I could deep inside we kind of still care each other.What could I do?
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reader, N91 +, writes (23 June 2011):
 Not a lot you can do really...
You can either continue to stay in contact with her and try to speak to her more, however this may push her away even further if she doesn't want to speak to you anymore.
Other than that, it's time to move on my friend, looks like she's made it clear that she doesn't want to be as close friends as you once were.
I know the feeling man, had this happen to myself, just keep strong, keep yourself busy and hang out with other friends that won't treat you this way!
Good luck!
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