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writes:So I have a real problem I think ill make this as short as possible...I met a diabetic girl online 3 Weeks ago, after talking for 2 of those Weeks we meet up 3 days in a row, all the while each night we are being intimate, not intercourse, just kissing mostly. On the 3rd date(yesterday), I ask her to my house and I make dinner for us, and tonignt she says she would like to try wine with the, so she has 2 glasses in over 2 hour period. Now things warmup on the couch and I ask if she wants to move to the bedroom and she says yes, after about 30 mins I notice her insulin pump has come out and I ask her if its ok, and she says she will be ok, so we continue, and about another 20 mins, i notice her getting really silly, I mean slaphappy silly, to which I ask again is she ok, and she's obviously not feeling well, so I stop, and we lay in bed cause at this point she got a bad headache, and is crying, so im getting scared and asking if she needs medical attention to which shes saying no she doesn't. After about 30 mins she wants to go home, so we get dressed, and she's almost falling over. So again im asking her to let me take her to the hospital cause I dont want her driving away like that. but she insists, and I let her, i cant believe I did.Now I txt her about 45 mins later as she lives quite a bit from my house, and she replys thats shes going to the er, cause her bloodsugar is bottoming out, so now im in fear that ill never see her again cause I messed up by letting her drive away, she was messed up from the wine she drank, which caused her to feel the way she did, and im worried maybe she thinks I took advantage of her, and I really like this girl, shes absolutely gorgeous, she 21, im 28, she in college with a bright future ahead of her, honestly I feel shes too good for me, cause im a bigger guy, where as she's very fit and athletic, im not, and im scared that because I didnt take her to hospital when I knew I should have, and now im worried I wont hear from her, she told me not to worry, but I am, how are her parents gonna react when they hear what happened?I know that on the previous 2 dates she wanted to come home with me, cause it was just blatantly obvious, but she never drank those 2 times tonight she did and we had sex afterwards, so im worried that because of all that, if she thinks I took advantage, or am I being too paranoid...I know that was kinda long,sorry, and im sure I left out somethings,but idk im scared.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (30 May 2012):
 Don't be scared... just talk to her...
if it was the first time she drank, she knows now that she does not react well to alcohol... and she needs to be more careful about it.
diabetes can be dangerous and next time you can say to her 'look I'm worried that your blood sugar is out of whack and I'm afraid to let you drive alone'.
if she's that fragile of a diabetic she should have a blood glucose meter with her at all times and she can teach you how to help her take her blood sugar and what the readings mean.
when your sugar drops you do get all wonky and it can be dangerous....
if you like her that much you have to see if she will let you be in to that part of her life...
I have an online friend that is a fragile diabetic and she crashed AT HER WEDDING.... it was horrid she ended up in the hospital. Stress, alcohol, food, illness... so many things can set off diabetes especially at a young age if she is fit and active it's probably juvenile diabetes and that is more difficult (type 1) than type 2 onset from age, weight and lack of exercise...
btw just because a girl is slender and fit does not means he does not prefer larger guys...
TALK TO HER!
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reader, herbert1984 +, writes (30 May 2012):
herbert1984 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your response,we did talk about it and I came to the conclusion that I overreacted some,ive just never been put in that type of situation before,so it was new to me as well as her,since this was the first time shes drank before,and it reacted differently then she thought. But thanks again :)
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