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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi! I have a problem that I'm really hoping some of you could help. You see, my best friend who also happens to be my super huge crush has fallen head over heels for one of my friends. Yes, I was a little sad, but I got over it. After a few weeks, he admited to her that he didn't like him. She was super crushed and sad. So, in spite and looking for a big helping of revenge, she made a fake facebook account of somebody that didn't exist and posted them like they were in a relationship. The problem was that she stole, yes STOLE pictures of some random person from a totally different state and blocked him so he wouldn't find out. I asked my step-father about this and he said it was a count of both Invasion of Privacy, and Identity theft. Finally, the person she liked found out and told her she was sick and twisted. I tried to warn her before all of this, but she wouldn't listen. Now she says I don't understand. What is there to understand? Please, whomever may be reading this, what should I tell her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2011): You both sound a bit young, and when you are young you tend to make mistakes and not always the best decisions. You should explain to her how you feel. I'm sure she has or will learn a lesson from this
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2011): Well I've done it myself make made phony facebook accounts and made fun of another girl. At first I thought it was great and I was thinking she deserve it all but not knowing what would be the consequences later. Well I guess it's too late to regret since the damage has been done this will all serve as a lesson for us... no matter how hurt and frustrated we are we have to make sure that we don't think of revenge from others. Wishing them bad won't bring us any good at all...
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (24 June 2011):
 You are a good friend and did everything you could to stop her and make her understand that this is wrong.
There's absolutely nothing to say, she needs to be responsible for her actions and hopefully she'll learn from this.
**you're a good friend**
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reader, llifton +, writes (24 June 2011):
 you need to tell her this: GROW UP.
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