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I need sex, what do I do

Q.   i feel like i am going to die without sex what should i do i am 12...

A.   10 October 2007: keep it in your pants you are 12 years old you are 2 young for such a thing are you ready to be a daddy if she gets pregnant ? your not ready for sex and you wont die if you dont get it but i think you need to wait a few years till you are rea... (read in full...)

I don't even know her new number. Are we finished?

Q.   after being togather for a year we are now in a long distance relationship and it has been on the rocks for about 3 weeks now - we started with a calls everyday to every other day and now its hadly once in a week - and she told me he would give me ...

A.   7 October 2007: wait abit and see if she calls you but if you have been together that long and she has gotten a new number a little while ago than i think she should have gave it to you by now so something is wrong and when you do hear from her you 2 need to have a ... (read in full...)

I try to flirt over text or msn and end up feeling stupid! How do you flirt, what nicknames do you use?

Q.   How can you flirt online or text? I try to, but end up feeling totally stupid sometimes... And what can you call a guy (a nickname) when he's not a boyfriend, but flirting with him. Thank you x...

A.   7 October 2007: sweetie i a good one if your not with him or maybe sweetheart i used those on my man alot before w were together and well now i mostly call him honey or baby or by his middle name but all realy depends if your together or just friends ... (read in full...)

He's 21, I'm 14 Should I ruin my plans OR dump my love.

Q.   hi ive ot a problem because i'm young(14) and my boyfriend is older(21).please don't tell me how wrong our relationship is n illegal i've heard it so many times. my mom isn't worried shes meet the guy and she lets him stay round every night which i ...

A.   6 October 2007: okay i cant help but say how stupid can you be maybe your just that inmature why would you be having a relationship with a guy that wants and takes and takes from you doesnt care what would make you happy or anything ? that is so stupid iam so... (read in full...)

I'm 15, my boyfriend is abusive, I'm afraid and don't know what to do.

Q.   well to put a long story short. i have been with my boyfriend since my 14th birthday and i was 15 in may, 17 months i have been in the relationship and for about 9 of it it has been terrible. i have wanted to end it but i cant cos he says if i do i ...

A.   6 October 2007: talk to your mother or someone that is older and more helpful than your friends tell him you are done over the phone and keep away from him much as possible if he trys anything reach out for help like the police dont let him get away with thi... (read in full...)

I like this guy, but I don't want to get picked on.

Q.   there is a guy at school i really like, i have liked him for a few months now, he always gets called names at school cos he sometimes smells a bit sweaty. i know its not nice but i still like him. he doesn't always keep his self looking perfect and ...

A.   6 October 2007: go for it why let other people get in the way of what you think will make you happy give it a shot beauty is in the eye of the beholder so everyone will have there own opion so give him a chance since you really like him what do you got t... (read in full...)

I like this guy, but I don't want to get picked on.

Q.   there is a guy at school i really like, i have liked him for a few months now, he always gets called names at school cos he sometimes smells a bit sweaty. i know its not nice but i still like him. he doesn't always keep his self looking perfect and ...

A.   6 October 2007: go for it why let other people get in the way of what you think will make you happy give it a shot beauty is in the eye of the beholder so everyone will have there own opion so give him a chance since you really like him what do you got t... (read in full...)

Why am I so jealous? Why do I need to know what he's doing or who he's speaking to?

Q.   when your jealious does this mean you dont trust your partner or is there something you are needing to work on inside of your self ? i mean jealious of almost anyone and wanting that person to your self all the time with no breathing room and fr...

A.   4 October 2007: ok it was just a question to help with some of the questions on here not to knowledge this so thank you all ... (read in full...)

How can I nicely ask my girlfriend to shave her pubic hair?

Q.   How can I ask my girlfriend nicely to shave or trim her pubic hair? How do I bring it up? How do I say it so that she doesn't get mad?...

A.   4 October 2007: tell her you think it would be sexy if she did it a turn on for you and see what she says just start the convertsation off with asking herwhat she likes and what turns her on then tell her that turns you on and ask her if she would do that for... (read in full...)

I kinda blew my proposal to my fiance... she's spoiled so it's hard to "un-disappoint" her

Q.   I sort of blew my proposal to my now fiancee and needless to say she is very disappointed. I know the proposal is a big deal, but I still choked and am going to be stuck with that forever. I want to make it up to her, but I'm not sure how. The ...

A.   4 October 2007: well its about the feelings you 2 have for eachother and isnt all about the ring or how you do it long as you mean everything you tell her while asking her but i say this if you cant really take her out of school than how do you know you 2 w... (read in full...)

How do I give a blow job with a ice cube?

Q.   How do I give a blow job with a ice cube?...

A.   4 October 2007: i say suck on the ice cube and let it melt a little bit where it gets your tounge cold but also have abit of the ice cube in your mouth and suck the head intill it melts than run your ice could mouth down his dick and give him head there is also ... (read in full...)

Am I right to say to my Dad, I get no attention just because my sister's pregnant?

Q.   Ok, When my mum died about 5 years ago me my older sister who is now 15 and my dad lived on our own because my two sisters left home for older men. I was only young i didnt understand much but i do now. I know why they both left home and it makes me ...

A.   4 October 2007: well not in that way but you shoul talk to your dad and tell him how you feel left out because you feel as you get no attention i feel for you and i wish i had a relationship with my dad but really i dont want attention from my father so i cant r... (read in full...)

He treat me and my cats like crap! Stay or Leave?

Q.   hi i have asked a question about my bf before, as he always goes to the gym and comes home late all week, and now he upsets my pet cats to get at me, my 3 cats are rescued house cats and are very spoilt and mean the world to me, my bf will lift them ...

A.   4 October 2007: you both need to grow up i know your cats are special but there still pets butdont deserve to be messed with but anyways i say he needs a reality check and maybeyou to should talk calm and if not take a break cool things down intill you can get ... (read in full...)

Why did he flaunt me like that. Was he trying to make her jealous?

Q.   my ex just broke up with a girl he always runs to from his past (he calls her his rebound) the other day we were out on a date, and he saw her cousins and some of his friends, he asked me to stay around them and flaunted me in front of his rebound's ...

A.   4 October 2007: dont ask the question run far away and leave the player behind be happy bot hes flauting piece of meat good luck you gonna need it ... (read in full...)

My fiance doesn't want this baby!

Q.   Im 24 and I just got engaged to my fiance 25 of 3 1/2 yrs. and I just found out that im pregnant. this is my first child but not my fiance's he already has a 5 yr old daughter that we both love to death. and im overwhelmed with being pregnant. Im so ...

A.   4 October 2007: well i think you need to tell him how you feel for him asking you to abort this baby after him wanting to cum in you getting you pregnant how is this baby any differnt from his other child no differnt if he cant man than youll have to take thi... (read in full...)

Do you think I may be pregnant?

Q.   Hey,just a quick question if anyone can help me please? Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex about 2 weeks ago,and he 'came' in me im on the combined loestrin 20 pill,and i missed two pills on my packet before this one one of which was the very...

A.   4 October 2007: get a test and check and see i would say no but you never know he did cum inside you so you will need to take a test and also why would you let him any way? theres still a slim chance you might not be that lucky but if your not be happy and st... (read in full...)

My bf's daughter and her husband seem to want to control my bf's life..far too much! What can I do?

Q.   i have been dating a man for the past 2years and 10 months. we broke up twice but are now somewhat back together. i know that we each need to have our own friends and activities, but what do you guys see as a schedule for seeing each other. he ...

A.   4 October 2007: well he is a man not a little boy you need to talk to him and let him know how you feel about all this and maybe work out the seeing eachother part but as for him wanting to maybe start over where you want to be getting married seems to me you t... (read in full...)

If she keeps gaining weight, after childbirth she could be twice as worst? Should I look beyond the weight and be with her because she makes me happy?

Q.   I have being going out with my girlfriend for three and half years and she has really made me very happy we get on so well. Only thing is when I met her she was 12stone. Since we got together she has given up on staying fit and she eats way too much ...

A.   4 October 2007: you need to be talking to her about this and how you feel your still looking at her and even thow you love her and look beyond her wieght you worry for her heathy and also you shouldnt be forced to let her self go she should be keeping her self... (read in full...)

How do I tell him I had a foursome?

Q.   Shall I get back with him? I started going out my ex in Jan this year, we fell in love with each other and were really happy and even lived with each other at one point, we went away on holiday and he proposed and I said yes!! Soon after we ret...

A.   4 October 2007: its better to be heard form you than some one eles you have to tell him and if he really cares than he'll try and work it out as you didnt cheat on him but it may take time and if he is what you want than just give it your best shot if not walk... (read in full...)

Can I lose my virginity with a sex toy?

Q.   can i lose my virginity with a sex toy? i mean can i break my hymen with a sex toy and then it ll be easy for my husband pls help ?...

A.   4 October 2007: yes you can break thru your hymen but your still a virgin intill you have sex for thr frist time with a penis in your pussy not your toy or finger but also you can break your hymen with your finger or alot other ways not just like that i think i ... (read in full...)

How do I break up a friends with benefits deal? Is that even a good idea?

Q.   HELP!! Im currently dating this guy, and so far we've been having fun to the fullest! Yes we argue but we make up that same instant (nothing serious) , we aren't in a relationship, but were sexually intimate. So u can call it a friends with benefits ...

A.   4 October 2007: well its like this why does he want to buy the cow when its giving away milk for free !!!!!!!! less time less work and less money he gets what he wants from you and says hes your friend labels you as easy ass and keeps it at that good luck b... (read in full...)

My gf always tries to make me jealous and her behavior gets me so angry! What can I do?

Q.   I have been going out for the last 10 months and I am quite fine with my girl. We are really commited and all, but the only thing that bother me is that she always tries to make me jealous all the time. I get really pissed. The more I ask her not to ...

A.   4 October 2007: frist you have to set her down and talk to her about showing you disrespect but some say making a guy jealious just shows he cares but i do think you should talk to her about this its the only way to get to the bottom of something good luck... (read in full...)

My fiance wants to wait two years until we're married! Isn't that too long?

Q.   My fiance to get has told me to wait for 2 years from now so that we can get married,Isn't that too long.Advice please....

A.   4 October 2007: everyone has there own opions and to some 2 years is nothing and others have been engaged for 10 years but you need to learn wy he wants to wait and go from there if you love him and if it feels right than wait if you cant then test one failed he i... (read in full...)

Hand holding..why won't he?

Q.   my boyfriend won't hold my hand and I don't know if he wants to or not? how do you tell?...

A.   4 October 2007: at hes age he maybe embarresed of holding hands hun so just try holding hes if he pulls away that there you know but at hes age thats the only way i could tell since you are like 10 or 12 ?... (read in full...)

His new gf is so rude to me...what does she want from me??

Q.   Im so confused! Me and my boyfriend broke up for i dunno maybe a week or so and now hes got a new girl. We both chose to remain friends in hopes that theres still a chance that something will happen in the future (hes 15 im 14) well there is only ...

A.   4 October 2007: i say try and ignore he and cut all contct with the ex dont even leave the friend opition open or later love he choose to leave you over lies and things okay then big red flag right there hes still way inmater think of it more as dating some one... (read in full...)

He treats us like buses, when one breaks down, catches the next. I can't seem to be able to forgive him and take him back...

Q.   Ok me and my ex boyfriend have been of again on again for 2 years now.. Prior to that a 5 year relationship., so altogether 7 years. When he is gone I miss him, when he is around I am easily annoyed...I know I am annoyed, well more so (hurt) because ...

A.   4 October 2007: one thing to let you know he tells you he loves you and then runs to her okay then stop a second and ditch the feelings think about it HES A PLAYER AND GETTING WHAT HE WANTS he is treating you like a piece of cheap meat and gets what he wants yo... (read in full...)

I'm so paranoid, my boyfriend and my best friend like each other!

Q.   Recently ive noticed that my best friend has started to take alot of interest in my boyfriend. I've tryed to ignore it, thinking i'm being paranoid and stupid. Thing is, this has happened before, with a different friend stealing an ex. I care ...

A.   4 October 2007: frist i think that he needs to not be taking tyour best friend off for little talks that isnt right but also cant you 2 have time with out her you dont want to lose them but seems as there doing you dirty and not being a good bf or best friend ... (read in full...)

If I join the Army she won't marry me, what do I do?

Q.   I was to recruited to join Armed Forces but my Gf told me not to join if i want to marry her,"Joining Army,u'll lose me,continuing with my current job we'll get married"Advice what can i do....

A.   4 October 2007: she maybe scared hat you could lose your life being in the army but also she shouldnt put you in that situation its not her place to pretty much choose for you! i say do what you think is best for you and what you feel is right if this is so... (read in full...)

Not sure if he is mad with me for not letting him live with me

Q.   I told him he could not live with me, I haven't heard from him ever since. Is he mad or just moved on for good?...

A.   4 October 2007: well i think he has moved on and left it as that and better off for you as all he seemed like he wanted to do was live off of you if he left and stopped talking to you for not letting him move in your home well count your blessings you went thr... (read in full...)

I shouldn't have to tell my partner to act like a partner! His behavior is confusing and really hurts me! Help!

Q.   hi me again sorry to be so annoying,i wrote about my partner of a year and a half and how his family hates me and abuses me. Now he doesn't want to sort out any situation with me. My last question had the heading "can someone help". Well, I know I s...

A.   4 October 2007: i think you need to sit down and make him listen and dont try and fight and if he starts one walk away when hes calm and ready tell him how unhappy you are and how you dont think you can take it any more that you would like to work thru things if h... (read in full...)

How do I tell my family he's older than me?

Q.   This sounds really stupid but my parents are quite strict and i'm worried they wont let me see my bf who is 16 and in college (i'm almost 15 and in year 10). I don't tell my parents much anyway and this would be the first guy i've told them about. ...

A.   4 October 2007: are you going to be 15 in the year 2010 or are you 15? if your going to be in 2010 which means your 13 than i think its really up to you and your parents if hes too old or not but as of my opion i think if your 15 and him 16 it would be okay... (read in full...)

Is it embarrasing catching the bus in front of the boy you have a crush on?

Q.   Every night after school I walk up out of school to catch the bus home and the guy I have a crush on walks with me to the bus stop. But then I have to get on the bus and he continues walking home with his friends. I find it really embarassibng ...

A.   4 October 2007: not really embarassed just they kinda freak me out but why be embarassed of it ? its a way home and it isnt all that bad dont let this bother you because i bet you he hasnt even thought twice about you riding it lol good luck... (read in full...)

What does "giving head" mean?

Q.   What does "giving head" mean?...

A.   4 October 2007: giving head means performing oral sex on a man such as a blow job or sucking off or fellatio differnt ways to say it or ask i guess but still means the same a guy wants you to go down on him and suck him off as in oral sex! but if your too youn... (read in full...)

Why shouldn't I have a baby?

Q.   i crave for a baby. i am 17 and quite mature for my age. i know 10 girls one of which is my best friend, all my age who have had babys last year after leaving school. i went to college. my boyfriend and i have been together 4 3years in november ...

A.   3 October 2007: you got to know think isnt the best thing to say during this wanting a baby you just have to see for your self enough said ... (read in full...)

Why shouldn't I have a baby?

Q.   i crave for a baby. i am 17 and quite mature for my age. i know 10 girls one of which is my best friend, all my age who have had babys last year after leaving school. i went to college. my boyfriend and i have been together 4 3years in november ...

A.   3 October 2007: your too young to be thinking about having a baby at your age think of school what if he leaves you and that baby you need to think of your self and you have to make sure you can support u and this baby with or with out him good luck an... (read in full...)

I have just finished a relationship

Q.   I have just finished a relationship where my ex b/f and I broke up due to someone saying he didn't want to be with me anymore. He said he thought it was best but denied ever saying he wanted this. After a good bit of time, nearly two months he acted ...

A.   3 October 2007: he wants you but then again doesnt want you what i mean is he doesnt want to have ties to you but doesnt want you to be with any one eles kinda of like an confussed player but what you need to do is move on and stop worrying about your ex an... (read in full...)

How can sex be less painful?

Q.   I need some advice, is there anyway of making sex less painful the first time? Im 16 and in a new relationship, we wanted to sleep together the other day but i told him to stop because the pain was awful. Im scared i'll never be able to sleep w...

A.   3 October 2007: well make sure you are relaxed and are really wet or lubed down there which ever but take it slow and take in the moment and try not thinking too much ... (read in full...)

He loves me

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been together for three months,and he told me he loves me, but i really really like him but i don't properly love him, but i said i love him back anyway. Since then he's told me he loves me three times and now i don't know ...

A.   3 October 2007: ok well if you dontlove him yet or feel that way your going to have to talk to him about it hurtful or not its the honest best way to keep your relationship tell him you were in shock and do care and really lie him but you only say love when you... (read in full...)

Is he cheating? What should I do?

Q.   Do you think i should leave my b/f of 4 yrs and father to my son? A couple of times now i have found phone numbers which turns out to be other women. The first time i forgave him and now its happened again. Hes saying he hasnt done anything wi...

A.   3 October 2007: well every one has there own point of view of cheating and i am not going to value my opion to that as it is your choice, but however if it isnt sexual talk than i think you need to calm down with the walking away. maybe take a break intill he ca... (read in full...)

Is our affair all right? He is married but not living with her.

Q.   Well, I am not asking for the "morally right" answer, but just varying opinions. Let me start by saying that neither of us are children, in the 40-50 area. At this point in our lives, we have lived through many different situations, and honestly, ...

A.   3 October 2007: well if you need an okay to set you mind at easy it doesnt sound like an okay thing to have, think of hes wife she may love him and he did marry he and if it wasnt for more reasons than the baby then hes mistake its very wrong to have a relati... (read in full...)

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