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*lowerchild041094
writes:Okay so, my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now and we have a very active sex life. Since it is so active he has a hard time whenever it comes to the week of my period. He has begged me every week of my period for sex since we started having sex. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I should do and how.So I guess what I'm asking is, Should i have sex with my boyfriend during my period?, Is there any medical reasons as to why I shouldn't?, And how or where is the best way to have sex during my period without me being totally selfconscious and uncomfortable?
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reader, jkirk +, writes (22 August 2010):
No I'm not suggesting anal (does absolutely NOTHING for me) that is up to you. But there are lots of ways to satisfy a person. Oral, hand, dry humping, anal. Just saying nope your cut off for 5 days sucks. Just think your horny and your guys says not to night come back in 5 days?
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reader, daletom +, writes (19 August 2010):
I don't mind sex during the period. In fact, my wife usually requested (or insisted?) on it just before or immediately after she started, to relieve cramps.
Yes, it's messy. That's what old towels are for. It also helps the mess if she showered, or washed very well, before we started. We played in the shower or tub a few times. That solves the mess problem, and makes for some interesting variety, but it's generally not as nice as a bed or the floor.
Depending on how recently she washed and what portion of the period she was on, I might be able to do oral on her but that was more the exception than the rule.
So just give him a little warning - don't force things on him if he doesn't want to - and enjoy it.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (19 August 2010):
 Not only should you, but it can actually be more fun! You already have increased blood flow to the area so you're constantly in a state of slight arousal and getting aroused is easy. Plus you're already lubricated (many people really like the extra wetness). Many women report feeling much hornier during their periods. As well, an orgasm can get rid of cramps as well as headaches. Two words of advice. One, put down towels. And two, definitely don't let him see the blood until you're totally done with everything. No reason only he should be the only one having fun while on your period (in other words I object to the idea of blowjob week or doing anal because the other is too "gross." How can feces be less gross?)! Have fun!
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reader, Flowerchild041094 +, writes (19 August 2010):
Flowerchild041094 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionEveryone thank you,
but the last answer are you saying i should try anal?
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reader, jkirk +, writes (19 August 2010):
Just because one ride is closed, doesn't mean you close down the entire park.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): Do it ONLY if you are comfy with it. And if he is asking for it, he can't be grossed out by the concept. And you therefore shouldn't feel uncomfy. Because if he is grossed out he doesn't deserve to be intimate with you. It's not dangerous. It helps tummy cramps. Don't imagine it to be extremely messy. It's really not that bad. Be safe though [if required] xxx
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reader, LilPixie  +, writes (18 August 2010):
 Unless you don't feel comfortable with it, there is no reason why you can't have sex during your period. Just put a towel down and you'll be fine.
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reader, katie123 +, writes (18 August 2010):
I think you should try it, it doesn't hurt and is pretty much the same, just with added blood. Just put on old sheets or put a towel underneath you. Good luck! :)
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (18 August 2010):
 It doesn't hurt anything. Just put a towel down to spare the sheets.
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