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writes: Hi, So there's this guy that i know from my primary school and i hadn't seen him for a few years but then my friend told me she had became friendly with him again. So she invited him to come out with us and our friends and he kept teasing me.Then a few days later he said to my friend that he fancy's me and that he always has and always will.The thing is my friend really likes him but he doesn't like her.Also i don't like him in that way which is what i've told him and he said he's fine with that but now on msn he keeps askin me questions like 'what do you think of me?' and 'do you have anyone in mind for a boyfriend?'I've told him to stop askin questions like that but he still does.And i'm not comfortable with it as i feel guilty that i've hurt his feelings when i tell him i dont like him that way!What do i do?
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reader, nadine hillside +, writes (27 May 2006):
 Dear Reader,
I understand you clearly as it has happened to me. I can honestly say that in the end he will give up because he can see you don't like him in that way and don't what to be with him.
But just incase he doesn't stop asking those questions on msn block him and try to avoid him and he will soon get the picture or just march right up to him and tell him 'stop asking me those questions because at the end of the day you know what i will say and also the thing is you don't controll me so back off' And if that doesn't get through to him i don't know what will just tell him it's not me that fancies you but my friend does.
Hope everything works out. Goodluck.
Nadine
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (22 April 2006):
 Hi,
if you don't like him in that way, dont go out with him. It's all down to you at the end of the day. It's your desicion, not his, he can't control you.
You will feel guilty after telling him this, but what else can you do? He's probably going to keep asking those questions until -
1) you go out with him
2) he gets himself a girlfriend and stops liking you
3) you get a boyfriend who is very protective
Chances are he'll get himself a girlfriend and before you know it, he'll have forgotten and moved on. It's what boys do!!! Keep on telling him, don't meet up with him and try blocking him on msn. Don't talk to him on msn. Get the message through to him Loud And Clear!
Good Luck, All The Best and Blessed Be,
Phoebe
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