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writes:k so I am in the most incredible relationship with this guy and things are fabulous. We have a bit of distance between us so we see eachother whenever we can. All is great. He has a sister (17) (fyi I'm 19-20 and he is 21-22) n e ways, His sister is a closet lesbian and I am bi... only ever been attracted to certain girls... and I am so scared that she is becoming one of them... we are really good friends and talk alot but... yea I dunno what to do. I think the answer would be to ignore it... but I want an outside opinion. We safely flirt through texting but in person we rarely flirt... and I dunno if its intentional or not... what do ya'll think?
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reader, SlackersACE1  +, writes (11 March 2009):
Gotta tell you, give it up. Cheating is bad, with family is worse, especially a younger sister that probably isn't 100% comfortable with her sexuality. That messes things up in dimensions you never even thought of.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): Why put yourself through such pain and agony? After the novelty wears off you will end up losing both of them, whats the point?
Stop and think friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): Her being a lesbian or you being bi has not much to do with anything. Neither does being long distance. If you are thinking of being unfaithful to your boyfriend, don't, unless of course you want trouble later on.
If your relationship is the "most incredible", then enjoy it and be faithful to it, have integrity and put up some boundaries with this other girl. If it's not so hot, then leave him. Do one or the other, don't sit on the fence.
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