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writes:So I stayed at this boys house last night but i was on my period. Anyway I refused to sleep with him because of this but then we decided to try anyway. He was on top of me and kinda decided just to stop after a few minutes. he had a condom on and said arr i hate condoms, so i was like dya wana leave it till i aint on my period and he was like yeh. So my question is..does a condom reduce the mans sensation that he feels? Also i dont really understand why he stopped? to be fair i told him it was hurting and he said should i stop and i said no, but shortly after he stopped anyway. after he said most of his pleasure is me getting pleasure..does that mean he could tell it was hurting? thanx if anyone can help me out
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reader, Demon_2004  +, writes (22 January 2009):
 I would say he was concerned about your feelings. Maybe he thought that if it hurt to much you would not want to do it again for awhile.
If it was me I would be thankful that he stopped and didn't want you to be in pain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): Well you did tell him it was hurting, he probably saw the pained expression on your face.
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reader, MommyOfOne +, writes (22 January 2009):
 Do you guys normally not use condoms? If you two usually don't, then he would notice a difference. But, I'm leaning more towards the fact that you said it hurt and that may be why he stopped. A normal man will be bothered by his girl hurting during sex. Every time I have told my boyfriend that sex hurt, he has stopped or asked me a few more times if it still hurt. A man wants his woman to feel good during sex, not be in pain. And if you are in pain, he's not going to feel good either.
And, just so you know, sex during your period is perfectly fine. Only an immature boy would be grossed out by it. As an ex once said, "you deal with my fluids during sex, I can handle yours." Now, if your early in your relationship, I can understand how that is just not somewhere you want to go. The only catch to sex during your cycle is if it is not a committed relationship that is not monogamous, std's ARE easier to pass along. To you, and to him. Especially aids. So, be careful.
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