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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I made the biggest mistake of my life last march. I met some guy on the internet. We ended up having sex and now my marriage is on the verge of getting divorced. I want to know how i can fix it. I have two kids in this mess as well. I still love my husband with all of my heart. I want to fix our marriage but he wants to give up on it. I need some advice right now before it's too late for me and my husband.Please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): Please undersand, all men want their wives to be chaste, and faithful, those are some of the most important parts to any real man in a marriage. You completely lost his trust and broke his heart, and he will always see you as a slut. I know this is harsh, but speaking as a man, I understand how he might feel. You fucked up, live with your mistake, he will proabably never forgive you, but you can at least focus on your kids. As long as you still have their love your life is not over.
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reader, Gio  +, writes (21 May 2008):
Hi,
Unfortunately, when one's trust is broken, it is sometimes very difficult to repair. Were there reasons that made you do that? something lacking in your marriage perhaps? have you already talked to him about that and explain things? If you had, and your husband still wants to divorce, you should perhaps try to concentrate on your kids, work together with your husband so,whatever the decision you arrive to, doesn't hurt them. And who knows, maybe working together for the good of your kids could be also good for you two.
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