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36-40,
*rewb
writes:Why do girls act so strange? I have a huge crush on one of my co workers and I have been told by 2 of the girls we work with that she likes me too. We hang out all the time at work and even recently outside of work. I month ago I asked her out and she said no. Yet she has asked me (with a group) to hang out several times. each time she flirts and everyone makes comments afterwards that she said how much she likes me BUT I asked her out again and she said no. She recently broke up with her high school boyfriend and she has a almost 1 yr old son. Please help me figure out the female mind
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reader, CuddlyLovely  +, writes (28 October 2011):
She sounds flirty. I would say she is probably playing with your mind - because you seem kind of gullible. Some girls loves playing with guys like that. I could be wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2011): Aunt honesty is right on the money with this one. Listen to her. She's smart. As for trying to understand the female brain...don't. You won't get far. The only people who understand a female brain are females themselves. We are complicated creatures, ruled by the moon and the tides. Our emotions are complicated, and things that most guys would find boring are what we actually like to talk about. We can be very catty, but also very sweet. We can be very snobby, but also very down to earth. We read way into things, and a tiny little thing a guy does, for example, picking up a pencil, is a huge deal. And you don't know how many times girls use their charms to get what they want, without even realizing. This is only the tip of the haystack, and there is alot going on in our heads that some people wouldn't understand. But, we have trouble grasping the guy brain, so its pretty much even.
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (28 October 2011):
 She's manipulating you into giving her more attention.Leave her alone for a while and see if she asks YOU out.
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reader, Koala Bear  +, writes (28 October 2011):
 Sounds to me like she is being very cautious. Nothing too complex to figure, If she is fresh out of a relationship she may need space and time to re-prioritize. Refrain from asking her out again, keep the friendship casual and hopefully when she is ready you'll both still be interested in each other.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 October 2011):
 She has just recently came out of a relationship, so my guess is that she wants to remain single for a while until she gets over that, am pretty sure that you don't want to be the rebound guy either. She is probably just taking a break out from dating until she has healed. It doesn't mean that she is not interested in you, she is just not ready to date yet. But she is having an innocent flirt with you at work and is more than likely enjoying your company. Just enjoy spending whatever time you have with her, give her some time, continue to flirt with her and see what happens in the future. Good luck.
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