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writes:Hi. me and my boyfriend want to lose our virginity together, as we have been discussing ideas. Any ideas you have would also be welcome! He hasnt seen me completely naked yet, but i said i would like to wear a sexy outfit at first, i'm not sure what kind yet. we have seen some on the ann summers website. there is also an ann summers shop close to where we live . i thought that might help get him aroused and i think playing some romantic music, or watching a sexual scene from a film together could help too. i'm not sure if we will try oral sex during the first time, but we have discussed it. i'm not exactly sure what to do to him orally though. all we have done so far is masturbated each other, and kissed obviously, and he has kissed my breasts. Do you think talking dirty would help too? I think we could both be quite surprised at that though as we are usually quiet and shy people lol. but we do want to experiment.I know the first time isn't good for everyone, but i hope we enjoy it.
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (7 February 2010):
 i agree with popeye. keep it simple, i wouldn't worry about talking dirty the first time around but it is important to keep communication going, like ask him if he likes what you're doing or vice versa if either of you do decide to do oral. make him take you shopping to help you pick an outfit that you feel sexy in and he sees you as sexy in (which shouldn't be hard i'm sure). just enjoy yourselves, take your time, make sure both of you are comfortable and adequately revved up and be safe.
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reader, popeye78 +, writes (7 February 2010):
Just take it easy, all this over the top stuff on the first time, I don't think is a good idea, its kinda puts a lot of pressure, trust me there is plenty of time for all that kinky stuff later.. Just go with the flow(obviously be safe)and take it slow.. when the time is right you will feel it, and if he truly cares for you, which i am sure he does he will wait too. Alot of people lose thier virginity with somone they dont care about, that is why they dont enjoy it and look back on it in a bad light. If you focus on the emotional side of things when you do finally do it then it will be an experience you will cherish.
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