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Should I make contact with him again or just move on???

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Question - (7 February 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone i would like to give thanks in advance for the advice that is given. I was seeing a guy called liam over the summer of '09 and it ended as he wanted to get back with his ex (he was still in love with her). So that ended and then i started seeing another guy called aidan but that just fizzled out.. i don't really know what happened with that but he just stopped contact with me for some reason and i thought things were going really great with us.

After me and aidan broke up i got back in contact with liam (he'd broken up with the ex) for one night and it was just a rebound. I felt really dirty afterwards knowing that i'd performed oral sex on him and it was just a pick me up. So i stopped contacting liam and we haven't spoken since.. now i really miss aidan again!

I really really want to get back to where we left it but there must be some reason for why it stopped. whenever i asked him he just said he had 'personal problems' but wasnt very convincing. Do you guys think i should re-contact aidan or just leave it and stay single until someone else comes along, im in no rush with being with someone straight away but i really miss him!

Please help ! :)

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A male reader, manontherun Canada +, writes (7 February 2010):

Move on , he hasn't called you for a reason ,being whatever . The simple fact is that he didn't call you back .So in short he has moved on .

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (7 February 2010):

Stop going back to ex's who aren't there for you. Liam left you for and ex, then came back and used you. Aidan just stopped contact. Quit allowing yourself to be treated this way by crap guys and move on and find a good one. Neither cared about you enough.

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