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writes:Tuesday:I met this guy in a party and we had a lot of eye contact and by the end of the party, we talked a lot. He walked me to a taxi station and before we said bye, he asked me for my number. I texted him my number when I got back and he replied - 'glad that you reached home safe :)'Thursday:Then I saw him randomly on campus and he was with friends and his face brightened up and he was all like 'hey how are you? how's it going?'. That evening he added on Facebook. Friday: We exchanged a few texts (he initiated the texts) and then I was like 'Maybe see you around' and his reply was 'Yeah I hope so :)'Ok, I REALLY fancy him! He does like me, right? :)Is there anything I can do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2012): Oh don't rush it huni,enjoy this phase of texting,randomly bumping into each other,its sucha nice phase enjoy it!
Get to know each other better..
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 October 2012):
 Don't rush things or force things to much or it might all go sour, yes all the signs are there that this is going well, so just continue getting to know him and enjoy it. If you are feeling up to it maybe you could ask him does he want to meet for a coffee or something like that. Goodluck.
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reader, missystar  +, writes (6 October 2012):
 It does seem to me that he might have some interest in getting to know you. Not all men text a girl to ask if she got home safely.
You might want to suggest a friendly outing somewhere. Maybe go somewhere for a meal, or catch a movie together, or engage in some kind of sports activity if you have a common interest. You need to initiate something and if you get a positive reply, then he could possibly be interested. However, don't mistake friendliness for emotions. You need to get to know him better. Some extroverted guys are friendly to almost everyone and speak in the same manner to all. Take it slow and don't jump into anything too hastily. Don't wear your heart on your sleeve :)
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reader, Atsweet1  +, writes (6 October 2012):
 Yes he likes you and he already cares about your safety which is a point for him. what you can do be nice show your interested like asking him how are things with him. Smile when he is with you or around you. Get to know him ask questions he will figure he noisy or you interested in him. Be yourself be assertive and foreward too. Tell him your likes and dislikes also find out his.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2012): I think continuing to do as you are.. Boys don't like to get chased, but you could hint if your texting on a weekend that your going to a certain bar/club, and would be really really fun if he could make it..Just keep being you
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reader, jatt640 +, writes (6 October 2012):
Well, I would advice you to not rush into things as of yet. Get to know him, talk to him, if he does not text you, text him. Ask him how's he keeping on Facebook and through texts, :) Wait till he asks you out, maybe for a movie or a coffee, or even just for a casual meet up. Do not jump to conclusions as of yet, as we may never know what is really going on his mind. He may seem nice and stuff, but hey, never judge the book by its cover remember ? :) And also, actions speak louder than words, :) Hang out with him, get to know him better, and when you feel like it is the right time to let him know, that you like him, which is of course if you do, then let him know, :) Never be too hesitant in such decisions, although to feel that he is the right one is necessary, :) All the best to you LadyLike ! And do keep updating ! :)
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