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I'm not sure if I've had an orgasm?

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Question - (25 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

When being fingered or being given oral in a particular way--which is good--I begin to shudder/shake which I cannot control. Am I orgasming or is it the build up to one? Or is it just the reaction to the stimulation?

I can't say if I've orgasmed because I'm not sure what it consists of??

Any help will be great!!

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A female reader, burningbridges Canada +, writes (25 June 2007):

Try a little self exploration? It'll be much easier to have an orgasm if you have one on your own.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007):

Honey, if ya don't know, you haven't!!! It sounds like the shaking and shuddering is just because you're sensitive down there, which a lot of girls are, and the person fingering/oraling you is probably making direct contact with your clitoris. I've had the experience of both the shakes & shudders and orgasming, and believe me, you'll know it when it happens!!!

good luck & be safe ;)

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2007):

flower girl agony auntsounds like the build up to one babe, believe me when you have had one you will not need to ask if you have.

Have fun and take care.xx.

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