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writes:Should I delete my ex from Facebook? We dated two years ago and have been friends for two years. But for the past couple of months, I've been obsessing over him after learning of his new girlfriend. It's distracting me from my studies and completely silly. And confusing since I haven't had feelings for during our two year friendship. We hung out many times and I felt nothing! But now that he has a new gf, these feelings are back and eating me up. I just blocked his gf whom I don't know. Should I remove him? I don't want to send the wrong message since we're friends. It might weird him out and ruin our friendship. But I'm spending too much time stalking online! Any other options? Thanks
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (12 July 2012):
 I think it would be a good thing to delete him, time for you to truly let him go and stop living in the past.
I vote delete. It's JUST Facebook.
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reader, IamJess  +, writes (12 July 2012):
 I think you can actually hide him off your wall and things, but probably deleting him would be better, if you didn't have feelings for him before and you do now its probably just because he has a new girlfriend and you were the one he used to pay attention to and everything.
Concentrate on your life and you will eventually find someone who made you think why you was even bothered about their relationship.
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reader, ImmortalPrincess +, writes (12 July 2012):
 If you're spending even five minutes a day obsessing over him and his new girlfriend, then yes, delete him and concentrate on your studies. What you're doing isn't healthy. I don't know who broke up with who, or even why you broke up, but the fact is you haven't been together in two years, a he's moved on.
You don't want to be known as the psycho stalker ex who doesn't want him, but doesn't want him to be with anyone else.
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reader, Heyshorty16 +, writes (12 July 2012):
 I think it would be a good idea to consider deleting him of Facebook and get ride of any contact you have with him. Anything that leaves the slightest remembrance of him is bad if you want to move on then stay away from it. If it didnt work out before you don't want to have your heart broken again if you keep obsessing. I know what it's like but I got rid of all contact till I was forsurly over him. Then once I got a bf and he was happy well so was i. It turns out we're bestfriends. It might not work put for you like it did for me but the best would be try and forget him. I know it will be hard but you can do it! :-) I hope this helped and good luck, i hope you find another guy.
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